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Odd blind date last night

You read the text message? That is weird :D
She was probably either making herself feel good about not being with you because you are moving, or wanted to be honest that you are an ugly mo fo and then felt bad because it might bruise your fragile ego.

Jonathan
 
She might be embarassed that she was so easy to get into the sack, and is making excuses. Send her a message back that you enjoyed your evening together and everything is fine. If she reaizes that you can be cool about the situation and there are no strings attached, she might decide you're worth keeping as a f-buddy (if that kind of thing interests you, of course).

Just so long there is no miscommunication, being buddies is great. Make sure there is not some poor emotionally charged schmuck in the lurch though :(
 
Pitiful. You're 34 and you sound like you're 17. :scowl:

Speaking of pitiful.
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I see it simply, two single adults got together, enjoyed an evening, and went forward from there. They may or may not ever do it again. No one was hurt, no one made or broke any promises.

What is the problem here? What or who gave YOU the job of judging either of these adults? Who made YOU the arbiter of morality on this or any other topic?

:)
 
It's pretty easy to see that she needed her ham wallet buffed and asked her friend to find a decently attractive guy to lay the slam-hog down for her. She walked in expecting nothing less, and nothing more. You're lucky, your friend totally had your back!
Do you write 99-cent porn novels in your spare time?
 
Pfft. Who cares what it seems like if you get laid? Worse case scenario is you don't have to deal with her. Double awesomeness.

That's if you get laid.

Worse case scenario is she states that she was just being nice and .... it wasn't any good ... and half the time she didn't know what you were doing. Now that would be worse, even if you don't have to deal with her again. :hmm:

Some stones are better left unturned. ;)

I've had a couple 'yea, she's worth a turn' .... the next day .... :(

Just enjoy the memories. ;)
 
It is obvious to me that I need new friends. I do not go out much, but the last time I did the girl I went with tried to hook me up with a fatty. She was cute, just a little over weight. I could tell that she was into me, and she was pretty cool so I didn't want to be mean. I told her that I have a girlfriend but we are in a weird place. I saw her the next weekend and it was very awkward...:hmm: