I last played professionally in 1979, mostly rock and top 40. Then I went to college, got a "real" job, had kids, lived the American dream. Now it's my time (yes, honey, I'm coming).
Anyways, I'm looking for a new bass before I advertise myself. I'm thinking maybe lighter is better. Are there any older players who have experienced shoulder/back problems slinging a heavy bass for 4 hours? Any suggestions related to that?
What about the neck? I'm thinking maybe a narrower neck is better. My Gibson Ripper has somewhat of a wide neck (1 5/8" nut, I believe), and I'm thinking maybe narrower is better in case arthritis sets in, or if my fingers lose some of their flexibility. I played a Fender Jazz in a music store many years ago and did not like it. I did the same thing a week ago and thought, "man, this feels good". So, maybe a narrower neck is the way to go (I don't plan on doing any slapping).
Are there any other tips that would benefit an older player like me? And how do I convince my wife I'm not in it for the groupies?
I'm also 57 and took a hiatus from 1973-1998, so we match up pretty well. I had my 1963 P still in the case when I picked it up again (parents moving from the big house to a small house, so it was take it or lose it time).
I think that my skills now are better than they were in the 70's, because I play more. But like you, I find that the weight of a bass is more important every year. I also find that I need to be careful moving speaker cabs around, as it's easier for me to screw up my back now. I don't have back problems, but I tweaked my back at one gig and I'm being careful not to do it again.
My first suggestion for comfort is a wide suede strap. I'm not fond of the neoprene straps, although some really like them.
I think light basses are more pleasant for us "mature" players. I have a MIM Jazz and an an OLP that weigh about the same at 9.1 to 9.7 pounds, and frankly that's as much as I'm willing to shoulder for 2-3 hours.
I also have a short-scale, hollowbody Univox from the 70's which is a great bass and weighs only 7.8 pounds - it's wonderful to play for hours. I have a Rogue VB-100 Beatle bass that weighs 6.4 pounds, which is super. And it has a great voice as well. finally, I bought a Turser JTB-401 copy of a '54 P which weighed 6.8 pounds, and I added 11 oz. of adhesive tire weights under a bridge cover to balance it and eliminate neck dive - it still weighs less than 8 pounds. (The Rogue, Turser and Univox are L > R on the bottom row in the shot below). The Epiphone EB-0 in the top row weighs 8.1 pounds, which is just fine. I'd suggest staying under 9 pounds if possible.
I don't think the width of the neck makes much difference, and to tell the truth I don't notice it very much when I switch basses, but if it does to YOU, that's what counts.
If you want real versatility, I'd suggest looking at one of the lighter short scale basses or maybe the Epi Jack Casady which is a semi-hollow. Or a 34" scale Jazz with a light body would be VERY nice. I'm considering swapping the body on my J for a lighter body that I will custom-paint.
Personally, I'm not in the market for basses that cost over $300 to $500, so I won't opine about the more expensive instruments.
Here's a pic of my bass stable (minus the OLP - got to update the shot - so I'll add the OLP below it...).



