What's wrong with playing My Girl if done/sung/played "well?" There's a lotta other "cheap" songs that wedding bands play...Here's my list of favorites....and we play 'em too....
Brown Eyed Girl, Mustang Sally, Shout, At Last, Misty, SoulMan, Moondance and dozens and dozens more. But It's Alright. I'll be Around. Unforgettable. Mack the Knife, Zoot Suite Riot, Jump Jive and Wail. Everyone does 'em. Loveshack. Have I told you Lately that I love you.
How are we "different" from the other bands I've played with and heard at these affairs? Better, more authentic singing and playing of the recording. From the bass standpoint, not slapping every Motown tune when it wasn't there in the first place. Being heard clearly and distinctly on and off stage. Having a natural synch up with the drummer. Playing in and around the Groove and having GREAT TONE. The band as a whole EXCELLENT show/movement. Everyone has a natural good time....no synthetic attitude. We really do enjoy it. Great lead vocalists (4 of 'em) and in tune, every time harmony. Excellent soundtechs who adjust every tune and lighting if necessary.
I have no problem playing whatever WELL KNOWN tunes people will dance to. We are not going to play Peter Gabriel tunes unless a specific couple request it AND we can actually make it sound good. We'd prefer to play a CD instead even if we could replicate it. It doesn't matter what exceptions you guys come up with. We're not gonna play 'em because they don't fit into the general types of music we do. There's a lotta tunes that people CAN? dance to. They're not all great live songs and dance tunes.
My favorites in this category are My Own Worst Enemy and Semi Charmed Life. Every time I go hear my favorite local rock band, people go nuts when these tunes are played. Everyone's jumping up and down, acting punky, having a crazy time, but they ain't wearin' suits, formals, and tuxes, and we are playing really "highbrow" events. I've been in other wedding bands that play as many informal wedding receptions as black tie stuff, but even there, you play what's expected, but ya do it better, more professionally, present it better, look more like a showband doing the material, yet still sound tight, in tune, and ready to play.
BUT...every time we play My Girl, 3 notes or not, there's always a positive reaction, whether overdone by everyone else or not. I get my financial share, I'm happy, the people that hire us refer us to their friends and relatives, we get rebooked. It's a successful formula satifying the masses and not the exceptions to the rule. One tune will not make the band but it can break the band, at least for a set, maybe a night. We don't need to risk the formula of success. When the rules change, we'll adjust. If we need to learn 10 rap tunes in order to keep working, we'll learn 'em. Until then, Let's get it Started is it for a while. Peter Gabriel, Third eye Blind, Lit, and the other thousands of other choices will just have to be played by others at other venues.
Larry