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People who are banned

I think people are missing the point, and meant to say this in my response to @petrus61 . It's not about drama or arguing with the decision of the mods. It's about simply being informed, knowing if it's a permanent or temporary ban, and having some idea of what happened. Most people are curious what happened to a friend, when something happens to a friend. This would end any speculation.
 
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I think people are missing the point, and meant to say this in my response to @petrus61 . It's not about drama or arguing with the decision of the mods. It's about simply being informed, knowing if it's a permanent or temporary ban, and having some idea of what happened. Most people are curious what happened to a friend, when something happens to a friend. This would end any speculation.

Nope, I get it. It's a theory that simply wouldn't prove out in reality. And, again, this thread demonstrates why, imho.
 
I was browsing and noticed the ban within ten minutes of it happening. I looked at his most recent posts and didn't see anything bannable. So I guess the mods deleted whatever was said immediately? I suppose I have some mild curiosity but I can live with the mystery. He and I used to argue more but that fizzled out. If he doesn't comes back I wish him all the best.
 
I think people need to consider that not everyone on this forum interacts with people the same way.

To some this is a place to come for some info, chat, drop their $.02 here and there. They don't get as involved as others. I have forums I belong to where that's the case. I've been here though almost 20 years, have gotten involved with people, formed "internet" relationships, PMed with members regarding personal things. I think it's a different thing for us. If max2112 got banned from an Amazon writers forum I'm part of, I'd think "oh hwell" and it would be the end of the story. Not the case here. Which I think is a good thing. This forum it a cut above the rest for me, and for many others here. I feel that adding the section proposed (as I suggested it) would be offering additional respect to all members, including those banned. I don't see any negative to it at all, to be honest.

It could also be an offered as an option to those banned, if people are worried about that.

I know this isn't a democracy, I understand and I'm fine with that - but maybe it's something that should be put up for vote and discussion in another thread?

I think the only thing that needs to be considered is other people's feelings and the rules. It's really that simple. Your experience, the bonds you form, and your personal stake in TB are no more valid than someone else who offers the same respect for others and appreciates the rules are in place for a reason. To me it doesn't really matter if you form a personal bond with "Poster X" if said poster had such a hard time following the same rules that lots of others seem to adhere to without issue daily. Even if fifty other posters thought just as highly of the same poster, it wouldn't change the fact that they did something to earn those infractions.

Would you prefer that admin just erased all trace of banned posters? Short of the current method, they'd have to just have one giant list of banned posters, which means more work on their end, which when it all adds up, eventually leads to higher membership fees. Are you seriously proposing that TB, whose rules are very basic and non arbitrary (at least IMO) go out of their way to protect the dignity of people who dug their own ditch to begin with by not placing a "banned" banner under their name? It's not like they're exposing the names of crime victims, or even criminals for that matter. The whole idea is kind of trivial to me and seems to have morphed from just "morbid curiosity" (as another poster put it) into some kind of victimless moral crusade, which still leaves me baffled as to what its intentions are.
 
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I think the only thing that needs to be considered is other people's feelings and the rules. It's really that simple. Your experience, the bonds you form, and your personal stake in TB are no more valid than someone else who offers the same respect for others and appreciates the rules are in place for a reason. To me it doesn't really matter if you form a personal bond with "Poster X" if said poster had such a hard time following the same rules that lots of others seem to adhere to without issue daily. Even if fifty other posters thought just as highly of the same poster, it wouldn't change the fact that they did something to earn those infractions.

Would you prefer that admin just erased all trace of banned posters? Short of the current method, they'd have to just have one giant list of banned posters, which means more work on their end, which when it all adds up, eventually leads to higher membership fees. Are you seriously proposing that TB, whose rules are very basic and non arbitrary (at least IMO) go out of their way to protect the dignity of people who dug their own ditch to begin with by not placing a "banned" banner under their name? It's not like they're exposing the names of crime victims, or even criminals for that matter. The whole idea is kind of trivial to me and seems to have morphed from just "morbid curiosity" (as another poster put it) into some kind of victimless moral crusade, which still leaves me baffled as to what its intentions are.

I'm offering a suggestion to possibly benefit the forum. Not disagreeing with any rules, arguing them, nor looking to change them. You're reading a whole lot more into this than what I've posted. Throwing a lot of inaccurate assumptions around, too.
 
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One thing it seems that has yet to be discussed is the business aspect of how and why warnings and bans are dealt with.

TB is, at least in part a business. They have support from music related concerns. If TB were allowed to be a free-for-all, Wild West, soap opera without rules, where everyone could run amok, the sponsors might think twice about their support.

TB has to strike a balance between maintaining civility, and ones right to express their opinion. They need to keep things under control without calling out someone publicly for their sins. The site has to remain a free exchange of ideas that will attract more members without becoming something that sponsors do not want their products associated with.

It is bigger than any one of us. If it is the opinions of the mods and/or administrators, that someone has become more of a liability to the business than they are an asset, then it's time to go. It's their sandbox, we just get to play in it. Don't let your cat crap too often where we play.
 
One thing it seems that has yet to be discussed is the business aspect of how and why warnings and bans are dealt with.

TB is, at least in part a business. They have support from music related concerns. If TB were allowed to be a free-for-all, Wild West, soap opera without rules, where everyone could run amok, the sponsors might think twice about their support.

TB has to strike a balance between maintaining civility, and ones right to express their opinion. They need to keep things under control without calling out someone publicly for their sins. The site has to remain a free exchange of ideas that will attract more members without becoming something that sponsors do not want their products associated with.

It is bigger than any one of us. If it is the opinions of the mods and/or administrators, that someone has become more of a liability to the business than they are an asset, then it's time to go. It's their sandbox, we just get to play in it. Don't let your cat crap too often where we play.

Precisely the point I had tried to make above, though a bit more eloquently put.
 
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Chris and Old Garage-Bender have both summed it up well.

People's infractions and bans are private unless they act so egregiously that it needs to be spoken of in public. It's simply not your business. If you really are such good friends with a person that you are concerned about why they're gone, you can contact them outside of the site. Otherwise asking to have a list of banned members and why really just amounts to virtual rubbernecking
 
Chris and Old Garage-Bender have both summed it up well.

People's infractions and bans are private unless they act so egregiously that it needs to be spoken of in public. It's simply not your business. If you really are such good friends with a person that you are concerned about why they're gone, you can contact them outside of the site. Otherwise asking to have a list of banned members and why really just amounts to virtual rubbernecking
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Some of my handy work. :laugh:
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Honestly, I'm not sure too many ate REALLY shocked that KBD was banned. Furthermore, even if you can't put it together, one can assume that he got ample chances....and blew them all.



My take on KBD's ban.........obviously I must have not seen as many posts. The majority I read seemed well thought out, somewhat biased with his own feelings, which is normal, the Rickenbacker thing, no big deal. Was surprised he was one of the Grammar Police, but then again, I'm a stickler for it myself, so I was never the butt of any if that.

I was surprised he was a problem, but I don't read every subject post or even every post within those.

I did tend to read his take Bodeanly's, Nerve's and others that I found interesting in the past reads.

I'll miss his viewpoint, even if I didn't always understand where he was coming from with his responses.

I hope the "Lifetime Ban" was at least commensurate with his posting, but I'll guess we'll never know, which is unfortunate.
 
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Just as a friendly reminder, since it has come up a couple times now, you can tell if a ban is permanent one of two ways: 1) the user's profile cannot be viewed, you will get an error when you try and 2) you will not be able to use the @ symbol to tag their handle as their name is not in the system.

If anything, I would suggest changing the error message to something along the lines of "unfortunately this member struggled to abide by the rules at Talkbass and, for that reason, will no longer be welcome here." It would be a lot more clear than "error".
 
Honestly, I'm not sure too many ate REALLY shocked that KBD was banned. Furthermore, even if you can't put it together, one can assume that he got ample chances....and blew them all.

Well yeah - based on a lot of history, I'd agree. That said, the last time he was banned, upon his return he seemed to be on much better behavior. Like he genuinely taken a look at himself and decided some of his behavior was self defeating. Either that or he was on meds. ;)

So on the whole, I was surprised this time. And I find it unfortunate, because I liked him as a member here.
 
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I was banned once, maybe more in the future after this.

My issue seemed to hinge on my "intent".

Moderator was the one who decided.

Not sure why the Moderator thought they knew my intent better than I did, a little Totalitarian for me.

The subject was manufacturing competition from offshore.

No profanity or bashing was involved.

o_Oo_O

If you're referring to conduct here on TB, I feel like I have to address this. We don't usually like to air out a user's dirty laundry, but since you opened the door...

You've never been banned from TB.

You've received three official warnings from mod staff here.

One in June 2016 - Rule 10: Trolling - you were putting down the buyers of a specific brand bass. That warning was worth 0 points, there was no ban.

One in July 2016 - Rule 1: Respect - You called someone a "Totalitarian A$$hat" and said their advice was worth nothing. That warning was worth 0 points, there was no ban.

One in November 2016 - Rule 3: Off Limits Topics: You had a string a posts in a thread that were over the line political. Intent doesn't matter. What is on the screen when you click "post reply" is what mattered. Rather than being issued multiple warnings for each post, you were issued a 2 point warning, and those points expired November 2016.

3 warnings, 2 total points. Never enough points at one time to trigger a ban, and a manual ban was never set.

This is all of course assuming you're not a past banned member under a different name.

Claiming you've been banned when 2 of your 3 warnings have been for 0 points? There's a sub-reddit that may interest you, it's titled "Quit Your BS"

To the rest of the users: You have to try to get banned from TB. The majority of the warnings/infractions that are issued are just that, warnings. After a user has a 0 point warning or two, then subsequent infractions may earn points, and it generally* takes at least 4 rule violations of a certain type (eg someone can have 3 rule one infractions and 3 rule 10 infractions and still not be perma-banned), pretty lenient if you ask me! Unless it's a blatant case of trolling or spam posting, no one is ever banned for one offense. If I were to show you a banned user's "rap sheet", you'd all probably be surprised at how long they stayed around for. We have a simple set of rules, it's not hard to not break them. 99.9% of the users succeed in doing that every day. We generally keep disciplinary action private, mainly because it's not anyone else's business. If you see a cop has someone pulled over, are you going to go up to them and ask why the cop initiated the motor vehicle stop? I'd say probably not, because it's none of your business and a situation doesn't concern you. Just because we're all member of this board and some people are friends, that doesn't mean you're privy to everything that happens.

*I say generally because there are extreme cases where people may be banned with less infractions, but it's not common.