Ok here is a drum loop/kit played by itself. You need something else to tell if it's in time or not? You don't have a sense of time just listening to a drum kit? What happens to you if you're listening to a drum solo? What happens to you if you're dancing to a song? Do you get lost because you need something else to give you a sense of time?
Here straight ahead real drums in specific BPM.
More 4/4 Drum Loops
The YT EZdrummer clip is a stock AFIK rock pattern. It does not suggest playing behind the beat. To me it drags as it's on the video. If you can't tell then don't expect me to not be able to tell also.
I can tell real drum loops are on time.
And I did mention with these programs unless you're a drummer or have drummer sensibilities moving MIDI squares on a grid what a rabbit hole to go down into. And it's still all 1's and 0's. Unlike a human drummer which is analog. All the inbetweens no "either -or."
I'm not talking about MIDI even if others are.
If a drum track has to be worked on until it plays in time referenced against something else other than a click track IMO it's a waste of time.
Find a loop, link it together.
So that we can put an end to this, stick to your MIDI solution. I'm just putting it out there for real drummer loops. You want to construct songs or you want to tinker-toy around with endless drum possibilities?
If you're not a drummer get a real one.
You can still create entire drum tracks as it has individual snare, kik, tom, cymbal hits besides the loops.
Listen to some of the loops below. Can you get monster drummer licks like these from software?
Manic Metal Drum Loops I: Classic Double Kick