I'm still here. Just got done reading everything. It seems pretty Unanimous and I put most of the facts in the 1st post. But there's a bit more to it.
1st. When I agreed to jam with this drummer, He said 2 to 3 practices per month. This would have been our weekend 4th in a row.
2nd. My Amp was fried so I didn't get any woodshedding dne until Yesterday(Saturday) which is when my two new Heads got here. 1 LH1000 & a Backup Carvin BX 500. The Carvin was fried right out of the Box(3rd one). I set up and tested the Hartke at 10Pm last night after setting up and decorating the Christmas Tree.
3rd. The drummer is constantly nitpicking the other 2 members because they are not getting their **** together at home. I just stand there for minutes while they hash it all out.
I definitely respect all of the feedback which is why I asked. Again this would have been our 4th of 4 practices together. As of now I was sort of doubting my own level of commitment to this project because the Drummer is pushing too hard for my taste. I'm really the only one ready to gig with the set list but I do realize they need me there for the whole band to get tight. I really wasn't sure how these guys felt about the importance of this one practice during the Rain storm. It's pretty laid back around here and this project was supposed to be laid back. The Drummer has since gotten a little too serious for me. I also made it clear that I needed to have 1 to 2 weekends off per month for Family time. I did not Just spring that on him. I Guess if I were more into the Project, I would be there practising.