We need an update
And so, one you shall receive.
Apologies all, but life and life-related stuff intruded. Moving on...
Everybody showed up, on time (the guitarist actually said at one point, "Hey! Nobody flaked!", and we had a laugh, for we have all used craigslist before), and was prepared to play, for the most part. There were some first-time issues, a few missed marks, and a few clams.
The drummer is good, and had written her own charts beforehand. I personally thought she played much better without the charts, but she admitted that she was going largely from tabs, and don't get me started here. She brought a birch Yamaha Stage Custom that sounded very good. She is a solid player, and we seemed to start the beginnings of a rhythm section groove towards the end of the evening- until my amp died (pre-amp tube, I think [hope]). This happened almost exactly as we were ending, no big.
The guitarist, who placed the cl ad and gathered the group, seemed to be having some issues with his pedal board, but had obviously learned the parts and played them well. Seems to know a lot of songs. Had a PRS SE and an Epi SG as a back up, but never touched.
The singer seems like she may be good, and could be, but at first impression seemed a little hesitant. More withdrawn and a little quieter than I normally expect from a front person, but, again, could be first time hinkies and may pass. She also brought charts/lyrics and knew the parts.
Overall, the songs we played worked OK, although I seemed to know them better than the others (even though I just learned them). I wan't sure who was supposed to lead, and even actually asked that at one point without getting a solid answer.
We have another meet-up scheduled later this week, I will attempt to lock down who has that seat, or may just try to own it myself.

Pretty sure this group will need a driver. I am also looking at this week's session as a means to determine if the singer has the range/skill/personality to fill the necessary requirements.
Have discussed an eventual 4 set evening, 80s-90s-00s- and a dance set, interchangeable for many situations. Also trying to hit some of the typical tunes while also hitting some familiar but unburnt territory.
Heartbreaker-Pat Benatar (by the end of the night this thing was cookin')
Hemorrhage- Fuel
Man in the Box- AIC
I am the Highway-Audioslave
Plush-STP
It's Not You- Halestorm
Alone Again-Dokken
Bang Your Head- Twisted Sister
Scandal-Warrior
Are the tunes so far, not sure how many will stick around. A lot depends on instrumentation/vocals tbd.
Thanks again to all for your support and encouragement!