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Ready to be ridiculed...

I’m not a great bassist by any stretch of the imagination, but what I do, I do well and I leave it all on the stage. I love more boutique style bass as well, and I do feel that a really nice bass can inspire you to play more. In turn, making you a better player. Either way, enjoy the bass you own no matter what the price tag says and play the crap out of it. Bassists come in all talent levels. There is a place and a band for all of us! Enjoy the ride!
 
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Nice bass!!!! I bought my first "brand new" car in '83 at 19 years old. It was $8300 and the monthly payment was a touch above my weekly net pay. I swung that no problem, so I see no problem with a 23 year old swinging payments on a $6k purchase.

My big issue here is, I will never understand why high-end boutique basses come in gig-bags. And not even a branded gig-bag at that. Drives me bat-guano crazy.
 
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First, congrats on your decision to cancel the order for the expensive boutique bass. I'm glad you asked yourself whether it was the right thing to do, and then asked us what we thought. Very smart.

The next question you might ask yourself is "Do I want to play bass or do I want to be a bass player?" There's a huge difference. Lots of enthusiasts want to do cool things, but really don't want to put in the time or work required to excel at their dream. I know lots of people who claim they really want to be writers but spend most of their time shopping for writers' software and attending writers' seminars rather than actually writing.

Think about how you'd most like to apply your time and energy. Once you have that oh-so-desirable bass in your hands, what will you actually do with it?
 
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That fact you mentioned you had to sell one when you "needed cash" is not a good sign doesn't sound like you are in the position to afford this bass even with credit.

Also sounds like your like a lot of younger people and have impulse control issues. You just like the feeling of buying then when that wears off, you don't have any cash so you have to sell the last bass to have money so you can then go and pull the trigger again to get that same feeling. Doesn't seem like any of those basses weren't "the one" and its you just like the feeling of buying some new to you.

Orrrr you dont really even have a clue of what "the one" bass would need to be the one. You could have bought these "dream" basses because you thought owning them would mean something like your a better player or that you had reached some level you had built up in your head that you found out when owning them to not be true.

But I could be wrong and you know exactly what you want and just havent found it which can happen with most stores not carrying high end basses near alot of people and having to order off online.
 
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If you are new player and not very accomplished, there is a very good chance that you do not know what you like yet. Since you are putting a lot cash into your new bass, I hope and pray your new bass really works for you. My recommendation is that you prioritize actually becoming a very good bassist instead being so so with very expensive gear. Personally, I started taking study seriously about six years ago, and I have benefitted from study far more than I ever benefitted from a new bass. At 23, hopefully, you have many years ahead of you to enjoy music. Two years of very serious and disciplined study could work wonders for you, and you actually know what you want in a bass, at least for now. I say for now, because musicians often evolve over time and find their sonic goals changing.
 
Your needs and wants will grow and change as your get older and progress on your musical journey.
I’d give up the idea of finding “the one”. Either there isn’t a true “the one” or “the one” will find you. Don’t try and manufacture that kind of bond between man and bass.
That said, there’s no harm in having nice things and playing nice basses if you can afford them.
As someone else said, these are tools.
I look at them more as tools in the sense that cars are tools. A Kia will do the job, but if you can do the job in a BMW, you might as well.


(I say this as a man who hasn’t spent more than $1k on a bass in years, and likely never will again)
 
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I'm sure someone else has said it but spending time with what you have can really make a difference. I've let GAS get the best of me and sold off some gear too soon, only to be unsatisfied with and ultimately selling what I ended up with. I got rid of my first good amp because of that!

Even after getting my buying and selling under more control and changing perspectives GAS would still hit and I would think about selling my Stingray 5 for something else. Glad I didn't succumb because I learned the ins and outs of it and it does just about everything I want (thought it has frets and I have a fretless bass for that :D). Even with my fretless bass I thought I wasn't happy with it, then I played it live and it killed! Unless it's a financial or an uncomfortable bass give it a try to spend time with your gear and get to know it.

Glad that you made a decision that gives you peace!
 
Got cash? Take that 10K and Go walk the Appalachian Trail, from South the North, it will take you 6-8 months, you will come back refreshed and focused. Leave phone at home, bring 1-way emergency locator beacon. You will meet plenty of cool people along the way.

You will find answers to your bass questions along the trail. Oxygen, nature and fresh air do wonders.
 
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Nice bass!!!! I bought my first "brand new" car in '83 at 19 years old. It was $8300 and the monthly payment was a touch above my weekly net pay. I swung that no problem, so I see no problem with a 23 year old swinging payments on a $6k purchase.

My big issue here is, I will never understand why high-end boutique basses come in gig-bags. And not even a branded gig-bag at that. Drives me bat-guano crazy.

I vastly prefer a gig bag. A Mono or Reunion Blues bag is perfect.
 
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Eh.

The only question I would ask is "Can you afford it?" (i.e. you're not missing meals or rent or child support payments to finance this). If you can, then sure why not.

You're concerned because you "suck". Hey, we all do. For any given thing X, only one person can say that there's someone that does it better. The important thing is making peace with that. I can say "oh I can't run a marathon, I suck at running". But then I ask myself, "am I willing to put in the work needed to be able to run a marathon?". If the answer is no, then there's no point in worrying about not being able to do it - I can run as good as I can with the time/effort investment I've put into it.

TL;DR: Can you afford it? If yes, then play your bass, enjoy it, and stop worrying.
 
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Ok,
So through out 2021, nearly 10 bass guitars have come in and out of my possession. at this point all of my childhood "dream" basses have been through my hands and I don't own any of them anymore. a few hit the spot but they also left my possession for one reason or another. Im talking Rickenbackers, American Ernie Balls, Euro, and USA Spectors (probably my favorites of all), as well as Status Graphite.

I don't want to be that guy with 20 basses, i would really like to be that guy that bought a certain bass when he was a young man, and that's still what he's playing in his 60s if God allows me to live that long. but for some reason I haven't loved any one bass to where I feel so attached to it that I cant let it go.

Now, a bass that is seemingly the amalgamation of all the good parts of the best basses I have owned has come into the picture, and as a 23 year old with no business doing this, I just bought it through a payment plan. And its expensive, like, VERY expensive. south of $9k but north of $5k. I cant believe I've done it, but I'm just tired of this endless buying and selling cause no bass quite hits the spot. this one IN THEORY, should offer the best of all my favorite basses in the past. As much as I hate to admit it I've really been spoiled rotten by some of the higher end basses I've owned.

Here's the kicker, I SUCK. I am not a good bassist by any stretch. I barely know any theory, I am *alright* in terms of technique but don't have the musical knowledge to put it to any good use. I've been "playing" bass since I was 12, but didn't really take any seriousness and passion to it until recently. I love music and adore bass, I love to listen to the best musicians out there from prog rock to jazz, and marvel at their mastery in technique and tasteful musicality. I just like nice things (though this is a few jumps over "nice"), and to me, few material things are more awesome than a finely crafted instrument, made with amazing dedication and attention to detail. You feel it when you hold them, and it makes you want to play.

Of course this isn't to say that I wont make an effort to become better at the bass. in fact I want this bass to be my trusty tool in the process of learning more than I ever have. It just feels funny, that for a long while, this bass made to the highest caliber of quality will be played by someone who hasn't even scratched the surface yet.

I am selling my other basses save for one beat up Ken Smith copy that I will use when I'm not comfortable taking a multi thousand dollar instrument somewhere.
Of course theres always the chance I get the bass in hand and decide I don't like it, which is why I bought it new from a reputable shop with a return policy. I wouldn't feel very good doing it, but its the only smart thing to do if you buy such an expensive bass and don't like it.

Not sure I want to say what bass it is I bought because maybe someone here was eyeing it and will be angry it went my way haha.

hmmm ... I got no ridicule for you ... rock on ... enjoy your basses
 
Ok,
So through out 2021, nearly 10 bass guitars have come in and out of my possession. at this point all of my childhood "dream" basses have been through my hands and I don't own any of them anymore. a few hit the spot but they also left my possession for one reason or another. Im talking Rickenbackers, American Ernie Balls, Euro, and USA Spectors (probably my favorites of all), as well as Status Graphite.

I don't want to be that guy with 20 basses, i would really like to be that guy that bought a certain bass when he was a young man, and that's still what he's playing in his 60s if God allows me to live that long. but for some reason I haven't loved any one bass to where I feel so attached to it that I cant let it go.

Now, a bass that is seemingly the amalgamation of all the good parts of the best basses I have owned has come into the picture, and as a 23 year old with no business doing this, I just bought it through a payment plan. And its expensive, like, VERY expensive. south of $9k but north of $5k. I cant believe I've done it, but I'm just tired of this endless buying and selling cause no bass quite hits the spot. this one IN THEORY, should offer the best of all my favorite basses in the past. As much as I hate to admit it I've really been spoiled rotten by some of the higher end basses I've owned.

Here's the kicker, I SUCK. I am not a good bassist by any stretch. I barely know any theory, I am *alright* in terms of technique but don't have the musical knowledge to put it to any good use. I've been "playing" bass since I was 12, but didn't really take any seriousness and passion to it until recently. I love music and adore bass, I love to listen to the best musicians out there from prog rock to jazz, and marvel at their mastery in technique and tasteful musicality. I just like nice things (though this is a few jumps over "nice"), and to me, few material things are more awesome than a finely crafted instrument, made with amazing dedication and attention to detail. You feel it when you hold them, and it makes you want to play.

Of course this isn't to say that I wont make an effort to become better at the bass. in fact I want this bass to be my trusty tool in the process of learning more than I ever have. It just feels funny, that for a long while, this bass made to the highest caliber of quality will be played by someone who hasn't even scratched the surface yet.

I am selling my other basses save for one beat up Ken Smith copy that I will use when I'm not comfortable taking a multi thousand dollar instrument somewhere.
Of course theres always the chance I get the bass in hand and decide I don't like it, which is why I bought it new from a reputable shop with a return policy. I wouldn't feel very good doing it, but its the only smart thing to do if you buy such an expensive bass and don't like it.

Not sure I want to say what bass it is I bought because maybe someone here was eyeing it and will be angry it went my way haha.
IMO, paying any amount over $400 for something you haven’t touched can end in an overpriced pile.
You could have saved yourself a lot of money by learning to piece together a parts bass with your favorite parts or learning to super mod a bass to your specifications.
It could take some re do’s but you would learn what your actually looking for.
Just my thoughts on this subject.
I hope your purchase is what your looking for!!
 
I would strongly recommend taking some of the money and spending on lessons with a good teacher. You can get a lot of lessons with a small chunk of the money you’ve spent so use it wisely - and save some. Old man you will thank you!

A good instrument might motivate you to play, but that doesn’t make you better. So much of what people do counts as noodling and jamming - which absolutely has a place and it is important.

The more you dig into the instrument and music itself the more your decisions become informed and you’ll have an informed decision based on real experience to answer the question of what you want/need from an instrument.
 
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