That's a hunt and peck effort at the moment. I'm fighting the notes, the rhythms, the fretboard... pretty much everything! My ear is probably involved more than I'd like it to be, it feels like I'm cheating
$0.02 - I know you didn't completely mean it this way but, just to be picky, nothing wrong with using your ear (it is music after all

), any combination of skills that gets it done is accomplishment, not cheating... FWIW: I look at it like this, if I see a rhythmic pattern repeating on a written page I know I don't have to read that rhythm, if I can anticipate the change I don't have to read that either, so now I'm just watching the form, if that's typical (e.g. aaba) then I don't have to read that either, only thing left, any specific lines, rests, etc... if there's none or they are easily memorable then I'm done reading for the tune and free to focus 100% on the more elusive vibe/spirit/energy going on. The sheet becomes more like a rear view mirror with just an occasional glance if needed but the main focus - the road in front....
Anyway, if you find yourself getting frustrated it might help to break down the components a little rather than all at once while learning. Break the components down into notes on the stave, rhythms, playing, etc..
Try that game I posted, it's just note placement on the stave, get that comfortable, at the same time try the rhythm practice in GNU Solfege, it requires only rhythmic notation. Broken down like that each will come fast and subsequently merge nicely. From there, rather than going right to your instrument, just find a recording of the tune and follow along on the printed music, after all this, go to your instrument.
Just a thought, but might make it easier to swallow at first.
Sheezzzz I hope these posts don't sound preachy.... I always feel like I'm just running off at the mouth with these sorts of posts, like who the hell am I to be saying how to do something.. LOL! Someone
please tell me to
shut up if it moves to useless banter.
-PE