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Bullet dodged IMO.
It was a two way test. You failed your half of the test, and they failed their half too (by failing to impress you).
I guarantee you someone else was happy to learn 10 songs and get the gig.
Real story, two guys playing banjo and guitar busking on street corners in the mid 2000s ask someone they know through a mutual friend to meet them in an empty parking lot to jam. The someone is actually a guitarist who brings an upright bass (which he can barely play) because the two busking guys thinks it looks cool. The jam didn't go all that great. The three form a friendship and playing partnership that lasts for over a decade eventually performing in packed arenas and resulting in lucrative recording contracts and grammy nominations. Guess the group? Point is, unless you're set musically and have no need to collaborate with anyone else, there's nothing to lose by taking a chance by playing one short rehearsal and learning a few tunes. One common trait of good musicians is they'll play with anyone, anywhere, anytime in the hopes of discovering musical experiences, good and/or bad.
Sometimes I wonder why I look at CL at all...
Found a local country band in need of a bassist... I've never done new country, but at least I wont be expected to play like Geddy Lee or Steve Harris. The add lists 10 songs. So I reach out to them, ask them a few questions about them etc. Reply comes back asking me if I can learn those 10 songs. I reply sure, nothing beyond my capabilities, and what about your band again? Their reply is to let them know when I learn those 10 songs and I can audition.
10?
I say sure, but can I have some info on your band? What is your skill level? what are your goals? what is your rehearsal and show schedule? Do you have a name? A youtube channel? Give me something to go on, Otherwise I will do 3-5 of your choosing.
I get back... "I had to learn 10 songs and another band I had to learn 30. Sorry you feel that way. Best of luck."
Bullet dodged IMO.
True, it was a different situation, but the band's response as recounted by the op was nowhere near as rude or dismissive as how you characterized it either. In my post I was trying to get across the basic idea of "nothing ventured, nothing gained." The band didn't exactly come across as friendly or welcoming, I'll give you that.Not the same thing at all.
OP responded to an ad looking for a hired gun, supposedly auditioning for an established band, and got no information except "shut up and hope we deign to hire you"; decided it was bogus.
Your example is people jamming without preconceptions to see what develops.
Not the same thing at all.
And for some of us that's all we want (although I did remove a couple of your points).Some bands roll that way. just show, be a good hang, have fun, and go home. Once a week. Forever.
They aren't?Also, he insisted it was 24 songs, because Waitin' for the Bus and Jesus Just Left Chicago were in fact one song. Insisted.
And for some of us that's all we want (although I did remove a couple of your points).
The current group I play with I put together with the intent that it was just to enjoy playing good songs well with no pressure to put together a song list and look for gigs. It's been going very well. Good people, good hang, great music once or twice a week.
After being convinced to do an open mic recently we were immediately asked to do a weekend gig at the venue. We'll do it sooner or later but are still in no rush.
BUT...... this was all spelled out right from the start.
The fact that they didn't want to tell you anything about themselves or their aims is a BIG red flag.