Yeah, it can make your stomach turn when something like that happens to an axe you dig, but it's real fixable. It's not really a disaster, it just feels like one 'til your TB friends chime in. Not your fault either, unless you were using some kind of solvent, which I don't read in your post. Human skin has a bit of a range of pH, but not in the range that should do THAT to a well-applied finish.
I'm not of the opinion that neck finish makes a difference in tone, but it has a big effect on playability. If you're not comfortable with woodworking and finishing, get thee to a good luthier and he should be able to get you a finish you want after sanding it down to bare wood. Try some other basses and see if there is a feel/finish that you like better. If you like that Stingray finish better than the Rick, take it along to the luthier to give him an idea of what you're looking for. And try out some of his work to make sure you like the feel.
Yeah, there should definitely be plenty funk for you to find in that Rick!