Nothing more pitiful than a man who transmits to others, "I am needy." Total turn off for women. Move on son.
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- Thread starter klejst
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Nothing more pitiful than a man who transmits to others, "I am needy." Total turn off for women. Move on son.
Yeah I know, I am not pathetic though. Like I said I simply just tried to reach out to her twice and she did not respond so I am done. And if she ever does get back to me and whether she acknowledges at all she blew me off then I'll be sure to let her know and that I am not going to settle for that crap or playing games.
Time to post some photo ops on Facebook with you and some of your hot female friends. It won't make her come around, but it will make you look like more of a commodity now that she has blown you off.
The best revenge, after alll, is living well and looking good doing it.
The best revenge, after alll, is living well and looking good doing it.
That's the spirit. Your time and companionship is worth something as is the right lady's time. As long as you BOTH realize that and treat each other that way, you're golden.
NOW you're talking. Kick her to the curb. If she comes crawling back, you're in. If she doesn't, you never were.
And the stunning/sadden conclusion is after she never responded to both my text or Facebook message for the last four-five days however responded to everyone else and did post on Facebook about her trip and what she was doing I basically gave up and left the ball in her court. I logged into Facebook last night and noticed she had un-friended me/deleted her Facebook. Basically without a reason or trace she jumped out of my life and basically off a cliff. It's very surprising to me why without an explanation as that is what normal people would do but I guess that is just girls for you...always seem to do that "fade out" thing with guys. Needless to say I am relieved now but confused and a little pissed off because of all we did together and the time invested for her to only just drop me. But also a girl like that why would I want to be with anyways...she bat s*it crazy it seems!
Not that I'll hold my breath but who knows I may hear from her again when and if she wises up...and I'll be sure to let her know exactly how F'ed up it is what she pulled and go out on top.
Thanks to all for your advice, support and laughs.
Not that I'll hold my breath but who knows I may hear from her again when and if she wises up...and I'll be sure to let her know exactly how F'ed up it is what she pulled and go out on top.
Thanks to all for your advice, support and laughs.
Sorry it didn't work out for yah buddy! Hope you can learn something from this experience and carry that forward with you. We've all been in your place.
Well played brother. Fawceted, but you took it like a man. Also I agree with your perspective- she's a whack job and she did you a favor by dropping off the face of the earth instead of stringing you along for future pain and suffering.
Since nothing is going on anymore, can we at the very least see what was worth all these shenanigans?
from reading this thread it looks like she wanted your ball in her court but you kept leaving it at home. live and learn.
OP, for God's sake, quit reaching out to her. Consider it over. In fact, even if she DOES initiate contact in the future, too bad for her. She fauceted you and you handled it terribly. Not trying to be offensive; I've been there, you've now been there, and everyone on this forum has been there. Learn from this.
My rule of thumb is that if the girl in question stops responding twice, then I never text or FB message her again because she's not interested. It has saved me from looking like a fool many times. There aren't many things more embarrassing than contacting a girl who doesn't respond multiple times.
Good luck, man. Take this experience and use it to ensure that the next girl stays interested.
My rule of thumb is that if the girl in question stops responding twice, then I never text or FB message her again because she's not interested. It has saved me from looking like a fool many times. There aren't many things more embarrassing than contacting a girl who doesn't respond multiple times.
Good luck, man. Take this experience and use it to ensure that the next girl stays interested.
As I mentioned I only tried to contact her twice - no more or less. She did not respond and I had my doubts already after the first time she blew me off but saw her chatting on Facebook about her trip so I figured Facebook would of been actually more convenient to ask how it is going, I was wrong again and that is when I pretty much just stopped. To my surprise as I said when she got home Sunday she un-friended me and to this day yet to respond or talk to me which I don't expect her too. Sure she played me, but the way she did it just dumping me for lack of a better way of putting it without any explanation was very cold and also a true mark on her actual character which is basically a true b*tch. I've been here numerous times just like the next guy...and then women like this wonder why they are still single when they are in their mid-late 30's...duh.
Thanks though for the advice.
Stop with the pity party. She didn't play you. She went out with you. That's life. If we all had to walk up the isle without a first or second date, there would be a lot more divorces, unhappy marriages, unwanted kids, and dead spouses.
Move on and have fun moving on.
Move on and have fun moving on.
yah...that's telling her!
Seriously man, she really is not into you.
If you verbally go off on her after just one date, it is going to make you come across as a creepy weirdo or worse. It also gives her creditable validation for not wanting to be with you. Let it go and learn a lesson.
