If songs were popular based on merit none of us would be playing Mustang Sally.
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Yes and no. A good singer who isn't a good entertainer isn't doing the job. Good singers are rare, and you might need to toss them a bone now and then, but they need to understand why they are there.
A quick bit of advice, You'll find it easier to find a band with the attitude you want than change the attitude of the band you are in.
Sounds like the musicians are "very talented and playing for a while" but the singer is only one of those two. Either educate her or get an experienced singer.
Like others have said... it's a tough call for you. Lead singers may be confined by their range and there are many musicians who only play what they like. Sounds like you're in that type of band. Being 63 in a "dad" or "granddad" cover band, we focus on songs almost everyone knows with an emphasis on danceable tunes.
My band is 2 guitarists, a female lead singer and me on bass...no drummer. And the lead singer is my wife. I see where the "married thing" in a band can be a problem. But, for us, the bottom line is "are people dancing"? It doesn't matter how much we like the song...if the audience doesn't respond...time for one they will respond to.
If a singer can't sing a popular, or requested, song in the original key...transpose it. It's time to have an honest, and rational, discussion about your concerns. If not, the lack of future gigs will inform you what YOU need to do.
I have tried hinting at it with no avail. How do I tell her these songs suck wile keeping my spot in the band.
A lot of good suggestion and I appreciate all the input. I'm gonna try to answer as many as possible with one post. Drummer and singer married so can't replace the singer. It's the singer and guitar plays band. I'm the newest one also the youngest. Mostly playing in biker bar to an older crowd 50+. We are playing at a new venue which is 21 - 30. I'm 29, I use to work at this venue for a year. I told her our songs will not work there. She is oblivious. I think I'm just gonna let them not ask us back and then fix it then.
Ok. I know probably 3 people who would know any Concrete Blonde song in 2022 and they are over 40 with kids. Who is your target audience? If it’s a divorced hookup bar A) both those examples will have the place nodding their heads in their stools and B) those songs weren’t Floor jammers EVER.
But you already know that.
So…
You could be confrontational or you can be crafty.
Are other members aware of the problem? Let’s assume so.
Pick 2 songs to learn that you know will have the place stomping. Someone said Uptown Funk, that’s a solid example.
Video the gig and call a meeting for the entire band to watch it. And accidentally aim the camera at the dance floor instead of the stage.
Good luck.
I would submit that you're in the wrong band.A lot of good suggestion and I appreciate all the input. I'm gonna try to answer as many as possible with one post. Drummer and singer married so can't replace the singer. It's the singer and guitar plays band. I'm the newest one also the youngest. Mostly playing in biker bar to an older crowd 50+. We are playing at a new venue which is 21 - 30. I'm 29, I use to work at this venue for a year. I told her our songs will not work there. She is oblivious. I think I'm just gonna let them not ask us back and then fix it then.
What everyone is saying is good advice for the OPs cover band. If the OP was in an originals band, he'd be getting different advice. The OP didn't say the singer was writing lousy songs; he said she was choosing them.What everyone is saying is that we must never play our own songs, since nobody knows them.