On the pausing thing..just watch for him to come back in.
On the fills..IMO a drummer should click the hi hat where the snare would normally be, when he/she is doing fills. Listen to that hi hat, and you won't be confused.
On the fills..IMO a drummer should click the hi hat where the snare would normally be, when he/she is doing fills. Listen to that hi hat, and you won't be confused.