Should I be angry?

[Geoff St. Germaine]

Wrong. Women are conditioned to believe it, but they don't. It's not genetic. You tell someone enough times that two guys making out is disgusting, but two chicks making out is hot, and guess what? They'll believe it. No matter what their gut tells them. Of course, it's not an issue for guys, we just like it regardless. But girls are conditioned to like it.

Well, then it is not wrong. You seem to have disagreed with me to start and then agreed at the end. Oh, and guess what... lots of behaviour is conditioned.

 

[Poop-Loops]

Well, then it is not wrong. You seem to have disagreed with me to start and then agreed at the end. Oh, and guess what... lots of behaviour is conditioned.

Err... no, actually, I didn't. Girls don't get "turned on" by it, they are just told they are supposed to like it.

 

[bassturtle]

Err... no, actually, I didn't. Girls don't get "turned on" by it, they are just told they are supposed to like it.

Thanks, doc. I didn't know that no woman was ever turned on by another woman.

 

[morf]

Get over it chicks experiment at that age, it doesnt mean anything.

 

[Toasted]

Also, during the course of that convo don't forget about bc

A big +1 to brad cook

Dude, your girl likes girls. That's *xtotallyx* hawt.

 

[Lazylion]

Have you ever heard an old song by David Crosby, called "Triad"?

 

[Geoff St. Germaine]

Err... no, actually, I didn't. Girls don't get "turned on" by it, they are just told they are supposed to like it.

You just love to argue.

 

[higgi]

Straight girls hold hands, kiss, and snuggle. Relax they don't have the necessary equipment to procreate, why worry about something like that? If she turns out to be gay enough to leave you for another girl thats another thing. But if you don't pressure her, then why would she need to leave? Women are different than men, at least I think so.

 

[BassChuck]

Talk to her. It bothers you that she did with someone else the things she does with you to show affection. So, if this was just 'nothing', what does that mean when she shows you affection? If its something real, then you need to talk it out so no one is hurt anymore than they are already.

Another issue that you might consider is why she drank so much she lost control of herself. If she really is drinking that much, you might what to take a look at that, or if she is just using the drinking to excuse the actions... well, that's another issue too.

People do crazy things when they are young and you have to excuse some of it. The real questions are, what is real, and what will be continued long after lessons are learned?

 

[Marlat]

I'm sorry, what is the problem here?

 

[jady]

Another issue that you might consider is why she drank so much she lost control of herself. If she really is drinking that much, you might what to take a look at that, or if she is just using the drinking to excuse the actions... well, that's another issue too.

+1 Drunk is no excuse, if it is, I could be gettin some every weekend at bar gigs.

I was cheated on by my ex, she cheated with another chick. Friggen horrible, how do you compete with a chick, you dont have the equipment. It almost hurt more because it was a shot at my manhood, if she was cheating with another dude, I can out dude a dude but how do I out chick a chick?!?!?

 

[cowsgomoo]

then there's some other stuff that I'm not getting into.

we can't give you great advice if you don't give us the full story

personally i'd be delighted if I was in your shoes... play it right and you could have an endless string of FFM threesomes on your hands

 

[cowsgomoo]

Here's the interesting thing to me - two chicks make out, but it's not gay. Two dudes do it and...well...gay.

Why does our culture react that way?

it's because 'two dudes together' severely subtracts masculinity in a way that 'two chicks together' doesn't subtract femininity

dunno why though... all I can think of is that 'two guys together' appear to be managing pretty well without any female input... therefore gay... wheras two chicks together.. well, they're just warming themselves up for me

 

[uglycicles]

...play it right and you could have an endless string of FFM threesomes on your hands

The best advice so far.




**rubs hands together lasciviously**

 

[Lazylion]

... play it right and you could have an endless string of FFM threesomes on your hands

Let's make it FMF and get our boy Scotty right in the middle!

 

[morf]

it's because 'two dudes together' severely subtracts masculinity in a way that 'two chicks together' doesn't subtract femininity

You obviously dont know many lesbians...

 

[markjazzbassist]

this is a great topic. personally i think it's cheating, but i would talk with her and see if you can resolve it.

also, maybe you could agree that if you get to make out with her friend too, then it would be okay.

 

[anonymous278347457]

this thread doesnt deliever


talking is good.

think of it this way, what would she do if you got drunk and made out with your best (male) friend?

 

[jady]

think of it this way, what would she do if you got drunk and made out with your best (male) friend?

Eeeeewwwwwww!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[KeithBMI]

Cool, I get to use a quote from South Park.

..."Niiiiiccceeeee"