Ok so I just made an account so pardon my noobiness if I do something incorrectly. But anyway on to my issue. So I was in a band with two of my best friends (they're both 17 and play drums and guitar, I'm 16 btw.) and we were searching for a singer after our former one quit. So our drummer decides he wants to get his cousin (19) to do vocals and we all agreed because we weren't having much luck finding a singer. So after a few practices our drummer goes on vacation and a week later I do as well so we of course we couldn't rehearse at all and apparently that didn't sit well with our vocalist so he quit and our drummer goes with him and they offered me a spot (I still don't know where the guitarist sits). The problem is that they want to be a heavy band with no singing and that is exactly what I don't want to do as I don't like that music but the drummer is my best friend so I'm not sure what I should do. I also might add that us original three are anti drugs and alcohol and the vocalist does indulge in those things. So the question is should I stick with my friend or try and find new people? Again I apologize if I didn't make things clear or messed something up.