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Should i keep playing?

I hear ya. My interest in guitar waxed and waned from year to year before I finally settled on bass as /my/ instrument of choice. I agree completely that you should go find some guys (or girls) to play with. And if you want some spark, try a completely different genre of music for a bit. That's worked for me.

Also, don't get too hung up on the tabs vs. sight reading. Use the tools that are available that work for you, rather than getting caught up in the trap of "I should really be doing this or that".
 
OP, learn not to unquestioningly soak up others opinions. You were using tab, but you quit because some said its not good. You were improving using it, be your own judge. Tab does not keep you from learning by ear or standard notation. I suggest getting a teacher for at least six months, and a few years would be great. By all means, join a band! Your playing will come alive if you do.
 
Getting into a band helped me a ton! I highly reccommend it, your playing will improve immensely and you'll have a ton of fun. My first band on bass was the church praise team and I just read the chords and played the root notes of each chord:D. Later I got into jazz and started learning the theory behind chords and whatnot. Also, I played trombone for a few years before bass so I already knew how to read notation (only bass clef though....) and transferring that onto bass just took a couple afternoons of dedicated practice for me.

Edit: I was also in a rock group for a while and ended up really refining my ear with that, because nobody would bother to yell out the chord changes the first time through the song.
 
No matter how you learn, how's your musical memory?

I suggust that you work on playing your tunes from memory. If you find learning by ear difficult, possibly learning by tab is limiting your musical memory?

When you're able to hear a bass line, melody or whatever and you can sing it, you hopefully be able to pick it out on your bass or keyboad.