I know many bands do thing many different ways, but the band I am in, I am kind of the leader by default. I own the PA (except the monitors), the lights and I bought a trailer as 2 other guys in the band owned trucks but we needed an enclosed mode of transport. We do not have a single gig more than 50 miles from anyone's home. Before owning the trailer, I fit the electronics from the PA in my hatch back and the speakers went with Driver 1. He had to pick it up each gig and drop it back off at my garage as he had no place to store it. It was a complete PITA especially if we played 3 places in a weekend.So I decided to buy a trailer, saves us a headache and driver 1 the hassle of coming and picking up and dropping off gear. Driver 1 has no place to keep the trailer so we were dropping it at our next gig and locking the hitch. Driver 2 has a place to keep the trailer so we decide he should take it with him. After 3 gigs Driver 2 says "You know it is costing me more in gas to tow this thing." I reply "well for 6 months driver 1 and I toted in our vehicles, which I am sure had an added cost and driver 1 towed it for a few months without complaining." I am talking about a small trailer 5x10. I don't charge the band for using the PA or trailer. Driver 1 or I book all the gigs and we don't charge for that. I kinda think Driver 2 should just be happy I have invested heavily in the band and not complain. I told the band the alternative is me selling everything and the band paying a sound guy every week and no one was thrilled with the idea. Am I wrong in my thinking?