I got to agree with Ken. I watched the vid and he is playing the melody at times. As a bass playa, I am no expert on percussion so I had my son, a drumming wonderkid, take a look at it. He noted the melody-playing but the most accurate piece of his review - "He's random." Unfortunately, this means two things and they are both bad. First, his meter is variable when it shouldn't be. Second, he means there is no real drumline. This would give him much trouble in the studio as no track would be similar enough. Without some level of predictability, expectancy, whatever, how can the bass player and drummer hook in and groove? If you are just jamming, fooling around and the drummer wants to experiment then fine, you'll lose the groove at times but no worries. If money is on the line, different story. He also said, "Rough." Why drummers speak in one-word sentences, I don't know but allow mw to translate. He meant that the variability of the drumming pervades the rest of the group's efforts and sound. It boils down to the drummer has to change or the drummer has to be changed.
Cherie, you are 30 minutes from South Austin using MoPac and 183. Drummers are available. You know some already. What I saw on the video would only be corrected with effort and buy-in from your drummer and apparently you have neither. So your dilemma is to salvage the drummer's feelings while tolerating mediocrity (perhaps for good) versus improving the sound of the band with a better drummer while tolerating any guilt you feel about the pain your old drummer will experience.
You have 10 minutes to decide. Startinnngggg......NOW!