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Hi Talkbassers.
I've got a curious situation I have been tangentially involved in, and now have been asked to be part of. Long story short (and names and situation changed to protect the innocent), a group of friends are "getting the band back together" to play at an anniversary party for a college friend. They're doing it for free, primarily as a gift, but also because it's been a number of years since they've played together. So, it's really all for fun. Except....
They're taking the time to practice on their own, and have done a few all day rehearsals to prepare for the show (some of the members have had to drive 200+ miles for rehearsal). They're providing all of the gear, of course. They aren't getting fed, no free drinks, and aren't getting provided with lodging for the event.
So i've been involved in a group chat about this, and have been keeping my opinions to myself about this, as I know they're doing a solid for a friend. Which is cool, and a fine thing to do.
... and now i've been asked to sub in for the gig.
Two sets of material, no rehearsals. It's an hour drive for me to the gig. I am rough acquaintances with the anniversary couple, but the guys in the band are some of my best friends, going back years.
So.... what are your thoughts on this situation? Do I take the gig, or do I respectfully bow out?
Let's see:
Band provides all gear and free entertainment
Party provides no money, no food, no drink, no accommodations
No wonder people don't value the arts!
Question: why isn't the regular bassist available?
IF it doesn't cost you a paying gig and these really are your best friends, why wouldn't you help them out and have a fun afternoon? They aren't asking you to clean out an outhouse. I love money as much as the next guy (maybe more) but doesn't ANYONE EVER play for fun?Two sets of material, no rehearsals. It's an hour drive for me to the gig. I am rough acquaintances with the anniversary couple, but the guys in the band are some of my best friends, going back years.
rabid hamsters
IF it doesn't cost you a paying gig and these really are your best friends, why wouldn't you help them out and have a fun afternoon? They aren't asking you to clean out an outhouse. I love money as much as the next guy (maybe more) but doesn't ANYONE EVER play for fun?
They're providing all of the gear, of course. They aren't getting fed, no free drinks, and aren't getting provided with lodging for the event.
I know they're doing a solid for a friend.
IF it doesn't cost you a paying gig and these really are your best friends, why wouldn't you help them out and have a fun afternoon? They aren't asking you to clean out an outhouse. I love money as much as the next guy (maybe more) but doesn't ANYONE EVER play for fun?
And play on - Independent labels selling vinyl and CDs have always been the lifeblood of music, and so it was that the lean time trained us to be ready for the high-speed age. But again, it is a question of adaptation, and many musicians who are great do not have the array of time and skills that are outside music. So we help each out, and good Information abounds ~I play for fun at a jam just about every weekend, but what I don't do is carve out time for a bunch of extra rehearsals (ETA: make that practice instead of rehearsals) and commit to a lot of driving for those, plus a distant show where I'm bringing all my gear, when I'm not going to be compensated in any way.IF it doesn't cost you a paying gig and these really are your best friends, why wouldn't you help them out and have a fun afternoon? They aren't asking you to clean out an outhouse. I love money as much as the next guy (maybe more) but doesn't ANYONE EVER play for fun?
If I had a dollar for every time I've been asked to play for free, well...hey, wait a second...No no no no no-no-no-no
No no no no no-no-no-no
– The Zombies, "Tell Her No" (1964)