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So, college?

Oh, one more thing- Dragon Naturally Speaking is a FANTASTIC computer program for getting essays and papers done 2-3x faster than banging everything out on a keyboard. Student price for the program is pretty reasonable. I used this myself as an adult in continuing education classes and if I had my material together I could whip out a two to four page essay in an hour or less.
 
Don't pick a silly major. College is expensive, make sure it'll be worth it.

Eh, it depends on what you want to do with your life. I never had a particular job I was aiming for, so I picked a major I found interesting, but figured I'd never do anything with. I've got a pretty good job in a completely unrelated field. I don't regret my decision. YMMV, obviously.
 
Please, do share your very high experience with the world of higher education with us. We're listening.

My experience with the world of higher education is, I dropped out of high school, and spent most of my life wasted, and now I can't retire until I'm 80, and even then I'll have to live in a box.

My experience with the world of higher education is, I've watched all my friends' kids waste precious time in school; waste their parents' money, and wasted their time on ridiculous social activities when they could have made something of themselves.

Any of that valid enough for you?
 
Complete what you have started. A lot of people including me decided to take a year or two off and "experience life" then go back to school. I never went back until I was 55 years old.o_O Most people I know who left school never returned either.
When I walk around a college campus like UC Berkeley I regret leaving school. There are all the things you learn in class and all the things you learn outside of class. This can be an amazing time like nothing you have ever known. It is a time that you will never be able to re-capture.
Like others have said,
Study hard,
Play hard,
and I would add
Love deeply
Help the less fortunate
Seek justice
Get involved
You probably already know it's okay to laugh. Did you know it's okay to cry too?


I'm jealous ;)
 
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My experience with the world of higher education is, I dropped out of high school, and spent most of my life wasted, and now I can't retire until I'm 80, and even then I'll have to live in a box.

My experience with the world of higher education is, I've watched all my friends' kids waste precious time in school; waste their parents' money, and wasted their time on ridiculous social activities when they could have made something of themselves.

Any of that valid enough for you?
Oh, no experience at all, that's what I thought.
 
Well - here's some ideas -


Administrative success:

Read you official emails from your school and do what they say, right away. Learn to sue the on-line tools - they may not be as cool as Talkbass, but they are important to know how to navigate. Ask for help when you need it.

Financial Aid:
File your FAFSA early every year; use the IRS Data retrieval tool when possible. Don't be surprised if you are selected for verification by the federal government. If you haven't used the IRS Data retrieval tool, and are selected for verification, you'll need to get a tax transcript from your local IRS office. Borrow the minimum amount you actually need. If you get a refund check, don't spend it (return it to your folks if they pay).. a subsequent adjustment to your account can, in some cases result in new charges to your account requiring payment.

Your Student Bill:
Pay on time or join the installment plan.

Registration:
Meet with an academic advisor first when applicable; register on-time or early so that your financial aid and bill are ready on-time. You won't get your 1st choices... don't fret (hah, bass joke); just have at it.

Academic Success:
As someone suggested above: work 9-5 - (doing homework/studying between classes), and relax at night and on the weekends. That pattern seems to kinda work for much of humanity... college need not be an exception. Plus, you will have the funnest evenings and weekends of everyone you know, when you are chill and relaxed at the times when fun stuff happens. Ask instructors for help early when needed. Know the syllabus. Buy the books. Keep the books (bookstore doesn't give ya' reasonable $ for buy-backs, and you can refer to them later for projects in advanced classes... the bibliographies for each chapter are invaluable).

When you find a class, or even a chapter that is 'your thing', go deeper. Either for that assignment, or a future one. Keep your eye on that as something you can use as the topic for final project later, or maybe even your major if undecided. choose major based on what you're good at, not what you think you 'ought' to do. Start final projects early when possible, so you aren't scrambling at the end. Try not to drop classes - muscle through, and also beware that dropping classes can effect your financial aid eligibility, your bill, and your academic standing.

Roommate relationships:
Roommates may or may not be a friend. Ask clearly for reasonable things. Get RA's or RD's help when you need it. Don't do dumb stuff, don't wait for roomie to do so. Set ground rules about visitors and sharing stuff. Lock the door when you leave. Be flexible. Be honest about who you are and where you are from. Accept others as different.

Social success:
Much like above. Be safe. Keep an eye on each other. Make sure sexual consent is explicit. Introduce people to each other. 1st round of friends may be how you meet the ones you keep. Join a club or organization that feels like a good fit. If its not, find another one. Save your money for the social events that are most important to feeling comfy. Understand 1st semester can feel rough, esp. around week 6-9. Go to stuff. Yes, even though some is corny.

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Oh, and take anything that sucks and channel it into playing the bass! You have an advantage over peers who really don't have an actual hobby or interest. Use it!
 
I thought of something else, you know how random us old people can be. :roflmao:
Don't be afraid and/or too proud to ask for help. With your studies and with life in general. Try and stay away from things that are toxic and addictive.
Of course, if your anything like me that last piece of advice will go unheeded. I had to learn about that through personal experience. I survived with my sanity, my health and my life. Some of my friends didn't.
 
A lot of good advice.

Here's mine. Get an education that will open doors to employment. College is a major investment. ROI should be something you learn about early in life.

Make friends. Real friends. Bonding over being stupid can't happen once you're an alleged adult. It can happen in college.

Enjoy it.
 
I started school at age 25 and didn't live on campus, so my experience is different. But...

1. Don't procrastinate.
2. Use all resources available, you're paying for them.
3. If you get a professor that you really connect with, see if you can volunteer for projects, etc.
4. Know when to fold. If you're not doing well in a class, better to drop and retake with a different prof.

I got the most out of classes where I had a more personal relationship with the instructor. Read up on their biographies, volunteer for their research projects, etc.

Once you get sertled in, join some clubs or orgs.

What's your school? My son just turned 17 and will start school next year. He wants to go to school in NC (Duke or UNC-CH) but he's prepaid within FL. He has excelllent grades and scores but it's probably not affordable. There's not that much money for merit scholarships, almost all aid is need-based and we're too rich to qualify but to poor to afford it.
 
Assuming your correct, what is your advice?

Do you dispute that it's best to use your time there wisely, instead of partying, and wasting yourself?

Please be specific, and leave no stoner unturned.

Balance both. Getting straight A's and having a good time can be done easily.

Figure out how you learn best and then treat it as a 9-5 job.

And yes, correctness is mine.
 
I'm a college prof. TwentyHz's advice is very sound. Just my own thoughts, redundant repetitions, and additions:

Watch your money. Apply for every grant and scholarship you can think of.

Balance, balance, balance. On the one hand, college is about more than academics, I know that; on the other hand, you can make friends and party anytime, but once you finish school, you may never get the chance to go study those subjects the same way again. Don't become such an academic hermit that you miss out on all the other things going on, but don't get so swept up in those other things that you let your classes slide.

Seek mentors. The disciple chooses the master, not vice-versa. Talk to your profs one-on-one every chance you get; stop by their office hours, you're not interrupting anything, most of them sit there reading a book till a student shows up. The class is just the jumping-off point; if you're really interested in a subject, you'll get a lot more out of talking to a prof about it than you do in class.

You may say to yourself "all my classes are irrelevant, all I want to do in life is play bass." Do not listen to yourself. When I was an undergrad, all I really wanted to do was direct plays. Now I'm a historian. Guess when the last time was I directed a play. BE CURIOUS! There is no such thing as a subject that is not worth learning about.

Do not double-major or add a minor unless you absolutely have to. A person who does two majors does not get any more education than a person who does one; all they really do is fill up their schedule with so many requirements that they never get to take any electives. As a result, they never get to explore a subject just because it's interesting. BE CURIOUS. Use your few years in college to EXPLORE.

Valid reasons to double-major would be if you're planning on a career that requires both (e.g. arts management, and you major in both art and business), or if there's a course you feel you MUST take that is closed to non-majors.

Don't worry too much about the employability of your major; that's a myth. Focus on the skills you learn doing that major, not jobs that require the content of the major. Law school deans would rather see English, History, and Philosophy majors apply than pre-law. Again, there are some careers that require a particular degree (engineering, for instance). Many do not. I majored in theater and my first job (with full career options ahead of me, if I hadn't gone back to grad school) was in marketing. I had learned great communication and writing skills. Lots of majors teach you to communicate better than a communications major does.

At first you'll be jumping in a gazillion extra curricular clubs. Don't overcommit, slim it down to maybe two that you're really interested in.

Getting along with roommates is important, but it need not be best-friends. It does need to be setting and respecting reasonable boundaries and expectations of each other.

Beware food in the dorm and clean up after yourself. Nothing makes dorm life as much fun as infestations of ants, roaches, or mice.

Stay healthy, eat, sleep and exercise.

If you must drink, do so moderately. Nobody I ever met was happy they spent their youth binge-drinking. The headlines are full of stories of college students (especially freshmen) who died outright from alcohol poisoning, or who tried to walk home from the party smashed and never got there, washed up in a river days later, or who lost all sense of judgment and wound up either raping someone or getting raped.
 
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By the way, a follow-up on the mentoring thing. You may find yourself in a class where the prof is a poor teacher. You may wonder how he ever got that job. Unlike high school teachers, college professors are not hired for teaching alone, but also for research. If the guy's a bad teacher, there's a good chance he's a brilliant researcher, maybe a legend in his field. If you're interested in the field, talk to him (or her, of course) one-on-one - they might be much better in that setting than in the classroom. And you may get the chance to learn direct from the lips of a genius in the field. Of course, there are some duds, as in any field, but bear this in mind.
 
Balance both. Getting straight A's and having a good time can be done easily.

Figure out how you learn best and then treat it as a 9-5 job.

And yes, correctness is mine.

Well, there's this ^^^

I'm a college prof. TwentyHz's advice is very sound. Just my own thoughts, redundant repetitions, and additions:

Watch your money. Apply for every grant and scholarship you can think of.

Balance, balance, balance. On the one hand, college is about more than academics, I know that; on the other hand, you can make friends and party anytime, but once you finish school, you may never get the chance to go study those subjects the same way again. Don't become such an academic hermit that you miss out on all the other things going on, but don't get so swept up in those other things that you let your classes slide.

Seek mentors. The disciple chooses the master, not vice-versa. Talk to your profs one-on-one every chance you get; stop by their office hours, you're not interrupting anything, most of them sit there reading a book till a student shows up. The class is just the jumping-off point; if you're really interested in a subject, you'll get a lot more out of talking to a prof about it than you do in class.

You may say to yourself "all my classes are irrelevant, all I want to do in life is play bass." Do not listen to yourself. When I was an undergrad, all I really wanted to do was direct plays. Now I'm a historian. Guess when the last time was a directed a play. BE CURIOUS! There is no such thing as a subject that is not worth learning about.

Do not double-major or add a minor unless you absolutely have to. A person who does two majors does not get any more education than a person who does one; all they really do is fill up their schedule with so many requirements that they never get to take any electives. As a result, they never get to explore a subject just because it's interesting. BE CURIOUS. Use your few years in college to EXPLORE.

Valid reasons to double-major would be if you're planning on a career that requires both (e.g. arts management, and you major in both art and business), or if there's a course you feel you MUST take that is closed to non-majors.

Don't worry too much about the employability of your major; that's a myth. Focus on the skills you learn doing that major, not jobs that require the content of the major. Law school deans would rather see English, History, and Philosophy majors apply than pre-law. Again, there are some careers that require a particular degree (engineering, for instance). Many do not. I majored in theater and my first job (with full career options ahead of me, if I hadn't gone back to grad school) was in marketing. I had learned great communication and writing skills. Lots of majors teach you to communicate better than a communications major does.

At first you'll be jumping in a gazillion extra curricular clubs. Don't overcommit, slim it down to maybe two that you're really interested in.

Getting along with roommates is important, but it need not be best-friends. It does need to be setting and respecting reasonable boundaries and expectations of each other.

Beware food in the dorm and clean up after yourself. Nothing makes dorm life as much fun as infestations of ants, roaches, or mice.

Stay healthy, eat, sleep and exercise.

If you must drink, do so moderately. Nobody I ever met was happy they spent their youth binge-drinking. The headlines are full of stories of college students (especially freshmen) who died outright from alcohol poisoning, or who tried to walk home from the party smashed and never got there, washed up in a river days later, or who lost all sense of judgment and wound up either raping someone or getting raped.

And then there's this. ^^^

Going by the whole "experience counts" metric put forth originally, I think we can see what the best advice is.
 
So, I just got to college.

Any words of wisdom?

Please?

I've been largely avoiding this place, but I feel I should share experience in a matter which actually matters.

Study hard, play hard.

On top of studying I held a couple jobs, had some great relationships, went to a lot of parties, went to a lot of gigs, played a lot of gigs, started a number of bands got into regular gym work and started playing competitive team sports again. It's all about moderation, your education is not limited to the formality of the lecture hall. The bonds you make informally are just as important as the formal ones, networking.

Talking the academic experience of higher education, I currently hold the degrees of Bachelor of Science with Honours in Biochemistry and Master of Science in Nanotechnology & Microsystems while being ABD on a PhD in Physics. At present I work full time in a research laboratory while putting the finishing touches on my doctoral dissertation and working on a research paper (which will the 11th scientific paper I've authored in the past 4 years).

-Don't be afraid to try something different with your elective course choices.

-Take any outside experience you can get (this may be working in your department during holidays).

-Be social, as you specialise fields become pretty small, contacts are always good. Your classmates today are going to be your working peers down the line. Networking is important, formally and informally.

-Try some new hobbies/sports.

-Make lots of music.

-Quantity > Quality.

-Don't regret missing out on something, take the fork in the road.