I'm married.
Me too! With two kids, and numerous cats and dogs.
I don't have to justify them, so I don't think about it much. It's taken me 25 year+ of playing, gigging , and working to get here. I like what I like and I intend to have what I want. Even if it takes a while to get there.
But in truth, I'm beginning to find it hard to justify any more than I have now. Ten is enough, simply because I'm running out of room. But they're all different or particularly special or serve a specific purpose.
1.) '69 Fender P in 8.5/10 condition or better. Can't ever sell it. My first Fender and first real bass. Haven't played it on a gig in years.
2.) StingRay 5. I'd sell it in a minute, but my son would hate me for it. He loves it. Destined for him.
3.) Tacoma ABG. Gotta have that sound.
4.) Epiphone Jack Casady. Gotta have that sound.
5.) Azola Original BugBass. Gotta have that sound.
6.) High-end bass (Skjold now, but insert flavor of the week here). I always plan on keeping at lest one high-end, eye-candy bass. Call it vanity.
7.) MTD Z5. So I can get the "high-end modern" sound and not take my high-end modern bass to the local VFW.
8.) Lakland 55-02. Filling my Jazz bass role at this time. Front pickup "J" sounds, mostly.
9.) Dearmond Pilot. Jazz bass -- actually it's for sale.
And my "go-to" bass.....
10.) Franken P/J-5. Squire body, Benavente neck (thanks BigJoe!), loaded with a Nordie P5 pickup. Eventually to get a Nordie stacked J5, but with a DiMarzio UltraJazz (?) now. Big, fat "P" sound. Gotta have that!
No fretless, 'cause the Azola is more than enough fretless for me!
If I weren't married, I don't know if I'd own many more, just probably better basses. The Z5 would be replaced with a 535, the 55-02 replaced with a 55-94, Franken P/J-5 replaced with a Sadowsky P/J-5, the Casady replaced with a US Lakland Hollowbody, the Azola with an Eminence removable neck model...well, you get the idea. I have every tone I've ever wanted or needed at my disposal.
But I could probably get by with 3-4 max. A P/J-5, an EUB, a nice Jazz, and a modern bass of some sort.
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