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Someone plays better than you?

Do you:

  • A. Get motivated and practice.

    Votes: 291 60.5%
  • B. Throw up.

    Votes: 9 1.9%
  • C. Sell your instruments and take up painting.

    Votes: 5 1.0%
  • D. Call up Tonya Harding and arrange for a good old-fashioned kneecapping.

    Votes: 34 7.1%
  • E. Drown your sorrows in a bag of baby carrots and ranch dressing.

    Votes: 59 12.3%
  • F. Buy more gear!

    Votes: 83 17.3%

  • Total voters
    481
I hate to be this guy, but I usually don't see bassists that are any better than me. The thing is, I can play anything, do anything technique wise, sight read, and know theory inside and out. I'm lightning fast when I have to be and rock solid in the pocket. At that point, "better" starts to get really subjective.

Being as I tend to work in the reggae and thrash scenes, I don't often get the pleasure to see bassists on the same level as me, but when I do, I love to watch them work.
 
Um, none of the above.

I try to improve my bass skills for the personal growth aspect of it or to play something I find enjoyable to listen to, but have not yet taken the time to learn. I don't do it because I think someone's better than me. Nobody's better at being me than me. Being me is a great fit for the band I'm in. Maybe I'll outgrow the band. Maybe the band will outgrow me, but for now we've been growing together and it works.
 
What do you do when you see someone play better than you?
It’s motivation to worker harder for me. I’ve been blessed to be able to open for a lot of my idols and play at some big festivals that included some legendary musicians. I also have gone to tons of big shows over the years that I wasn’t playing at. It’s always motivational for me. I really only worry about being shown up by local musicians lol. But that’s not necessary a bad thing either. For example when I first started gigging I used to just stand still on stage like a statue. And there was a local band in our scene that played kind of sloppy but they went absolutely nuts onstage and people loved it. So that band really influenced my showmanship because I didn’t want to be shown up by them. It really made me go back to the drawing board and do things like focus on being able to play the songs without looking at my hands so often, because I noticed when I looked at my hands a lot I didn’t put on as good of a show.
 
Andrew Juniper, author of Wabi Sabi, (a Japanese philosophy often described as appreciating the beauty in imperfection) states:

“if an object or expression can bring about, within us, a sense of serene melancholy or spiritual longing, then that object could be said to be wabi-sabi”.

Yeah, my bass playing skills make me a Wabi Sabi disciple!
I assume that’s got nothing to do with wasabi sauce, right?
 
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I have a different thinking: There will always be someone who plays better, even WAY better, than you.

Also there will be always a LOT of people who cannot plays as good as you do.

But, in fact, NO ONE will never play like you do. Your feel, your emotions, and vision on what you're doing is something that belongs only to you.

I don't care if someone plays better or worse than me. I really don't. But i'll always try to get something from others while they're playing. For me it's a joy see other guys playing good stuff, sharing techniques and other things...

Better than learning what to do, is learning what NOT to do, using the experience ( and failures ) of others. lol
 
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I like to play bass because I get off on the tone and the bass lines I am playing. I still practice and I still work on advancing my technical prowess, when and if I want to play something and find I can't produce what I hear in my head in real life. But I'm not in competition with anybody else and just because somebody does some technique or other that I can't do. Or don't do. Or won't do, that does not mean they are "better than me". Not in my book, anyway.

I've reached the point where I am happy with the lines I lay down in the genres I prefer to play in. More so when I was playing more, of course.

If I hear something another bass player does that I like, I steal it.

If I happen to hear something another player does that I like but can't play, I tinker with it until I can play it if I like it enough. Otherwise, I just forget about it which means I save it for later to tinker with when I have time. There's always something new to learn, and things to improve upon.

And there are always going to musicians who do things you can't do, no matter who you are.

My focus is solely on laying down a bass line that supports the tune I'm playing. If that's not enough, you'll have to find somebody else.
 
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YouTube 16 yr olds with videos of their Tribassic prowess have destroyed my sense of self esteem.

1973, I considered leaving college to play guitar based on the encouragement of dorm mates. Then I met Eric Johnson, 6 string soul crusher, and quit playing guitar for a decade.
 
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