FIRST, I am a musician !! And, I am a sound tech. I have run sound in many, many venues. small, medium, Large, outdoor, indoor. I have dealt with bad acoustics, as well as, GREAT acoustics. I have met and dealt with, all kinds of attitudes from musicians. I have seen drummers that demand to "FEEL" the punch from their Bass drum when they kick it. Bass players that want to feel the floor viberate. Lead Guitarist that want to play so LOUD that it is painful for their audience to listen to( say, they are goin' for the tone) . Lead singers that scream with the mic pressed against their mouth, and sing with the mic about 12" away. And these same guys want the sound-man to perform a miracle. A sound mans job is a thankless job. Every individual that hears a Band has their own oppinion as to how a proper mix should be. When I am running sound sometimes I am approached by musicians from the crowd. I always know what instrument they play just by the suggestions they make. Such as, hey man, the guitar needs to be louder, or hey man, can you make that Bass drum punch harder. Everybody wants more of themselves.
Bottom line, if it sounds like **** out front, I'M GONNA FIX-IT!!! After all the sound, reflexs on me !!!!! That's what I get paid for ! And, I do know my job ! TOO MUCH, stage volume when you are being mic'ed is a nightmare for the sound-man. There-fore he has lost control of the mix.