If glossy bothers you, take some real fine (my vote is 2000 grit, but some like it rougher - no coarser than 1000 grit in my books) 3M brand wet/dry sandpaper and wetsand the lacquer till its a little rougher for you. That seems to cut down on resistance for folks that arent into gloss. Whatever you do, do NOT burn all the way through the finish and oil the bare wood like the scott's bass lessons guy does, at least not if you live anywhere with seasons - that's just begging for stability issues. Also no steel wool - i find that it can leave marks you won't enjoy from a less uniform abrasive surface leading to a more varied scratch pattern. Just my experience, but the fine grit gentle wetsand method is the safest if you're smart with it. If you're not comfortable, have a pro do it, or just dont! (Legal: i take no responsibility for any damage incurred to the instrument)