Hi everyone, OP here, wanted to say thanks for all the ideas etc..
I have two virtually identical P-bass setups. I decided I am going to keep the GHS pressurewounds on one bass, and as much as it saddens me, I am going to take my chromes off the other bass and try various tapewound strings. At band practice last night the chromes were feeling grippy again and it was not even hot or humid. I just think when I play my body temperature goes up and the extra heat on the fingertips causes more friction to the flat flatwound surface. I don't have this problem with the presurres because they are more like rounds.
So the pressures is going to be my main gigging bass unless the tapes can do it for me, but I am pessimistic as I also need to slap on some songs and I doubt I can get a tapewound that can do all three things that the pressures and the chromes can do which is 1) plenty of low end 2) great punch 3) sound good for slap.
As far as the finger noise on the pressures I will have to deal with it because:
a) you will not hear it in the mix anyways
b) better than dealing with the grippy stickcy factor I have with flats (a few times this occured at gigs which is not fun)
c) hopefully it will reduce more as the strings get broken in
d) as many have suggested I will also work on my technique to reduce it
e) I am still hoping there is a good string lube product that will reduce the finger noise (finger ease does not do much but there are others to try)