Just to resolve this thread I did find my perfect string. The D'addarios black tapes were put on and played two days ago and I could not be happier.
Here is why I love these strings:
They are super smooth and so easy to play
They have plenty of low end and punch (unlike the gold tapes)
They have much less tension than chromes but more tension than the gold tapes. I am able to get super low action with virtually no fret buzz. Its strange because they are not floppy but they are not real firm feeling either. You can bend the strings and get some cool sounds. They sound great doing trills and stings and hammer ons, slides, etc.. All the articulations sound great on these.
There is absolutely no finger noise
They do not get grippy like flats. Sometimes they felt a little grippy but this is so slight compared to the flats.
They do have less sustain than say pressure wounds, but i like it that way. This helps a lot with a cleaner tone IMO. Less overtones and ringing. Almost like you have a very light fretwrap on.
They do not bother your fingertips. I have a big cut on my left pinky fingertip and these strings are not bothering it much at all - unlike the chromes or the pressure wounds.
Believe it or not they sound real good for slap. They are so easy to slap also, much less strain on your hands.
If I have only one complaint it would be that the ghost notes don't sound as good to my ear as other strings, but just on the A and E strings. But this is a pretty minor thing and not a big deal compared to all the positives.
They feel so nice to play as I don't feel like my instrument is giving me resistance and strain. I honestly have never felt like this with bass before. I am now a big tape wound guy and will order another pair for my other bass but I am also going to try out the labella copper whites as I have heard good things about those too.
Take Care.