so is running the LM4250 on 9 volts with the 220K resistor safe? the specs sheet claims the LM4250 can tolerate up to 18 volts. I'd rather solder a resistor only once instead swapping them
Yes. Basically those two resistors are there to hold pin 3 at 4.5 volts (half the supply voltage). In principle any two identical resistors will do that, however in reality the opamp input current adds an invisible "third resistor" to ground. For the LM4250, this invisible resistor is much bigger than 2M2 so you can ignore it. For something like a 741 it's lower so the other resistors have to be lower to compensate.
The price you'll pay for dropping the resistors down is decreased battery life - roughly about 2x the current drain, in fact.

I have zero experience in this so I gotta find somebody with a drill press in order to get a unwavering 90 degree angle 