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...It's really no wonder that when you look at the double bass side of this forum it is not extremely active as far as forums go. I realize that its a somewhat limited field, but maybe if we were more helpful as a group instead of getting all worked up as to where threads should be started this would be a more visited area.
You know, there is a lot of truth about the warm welcoming, but you know, if you look at it in other light, it might be as well arrogance or simply forgetting of the OP not to check the forum he is in. Some do it by mistake, some expect to be served as soon as they come here no matter what they did wrong. I believe that these forums are organized and visible well enough to find the exact section for questions I want to ask.
First two replies are very calm in my eyes and I don't see any hostility there. So I think that the poster should check the forum he is in. With the 'oh new guy, answer anyways' attitude, there would be no discipline and system here at all, sections are here for a reason. It is the least to expect of a visitor on this forum to simply post things where they are supposed to be, it is a common etiquette. And asking that has nothing to do with being welcoming or helpful. Keeping things nice in place makes everyone happier!
My 2c
Yes, but in my case, I generally like to leave the technique inquiries to those who have more expertise than I do and who are far more qualified to answer them. It's not that I didn't "bother." My usual M.O. is to "bother" very much when it comes to answering newbie questions. The OP didn't "bother" to apply the etiquette about which Brunot speaks. Yes, indeed, we should go out of our way to welcome newbies. Had my post been directed to the OP, rather than to the forum in general, I'd like to think I would have done that. Jason already had "bothered" to take the time to direct the OP to the forum where he/she could get the best response(s)....but the first 2 responses they got did not bother to even try to answer their questions.
Another negative interpretation that, IMO, is unjustified. People who try to ensure that they're in the right place are not necessarily doing so because they have seen how other questions are answered. Often, I believe, they are doing so because they are considerate people who recognize that they may not yet understand the organization of things. They are demonstrating the etiquette that Brunot mentioned. It does not mean at all that they have read older posts and that they view the interchanges as being negative....In my opinion too many of the posts start with a statement like "I hope I am asking this in the right place, or Sorry if this isn't where this belongs". I believe this sets a tone (pun intended) for the forum that people are wary of asking questions because of how questions have been answered in other posts. This shows that they ARE reading older posts and have seen the things I am refering to as well.
Seems to me you're off base (bass) here. I don't think there's any general negative vibe keeping people away. More helpful? Wow. Maybe it's because you're relatively new here that you just don't realize how generally helpful and caring people here are in general. No one here got "worked up" at all. No one here was hiding behind a keyboard while being uncivil. As Matthew pointed out and as I did, directing someone to the forum dedicated to the subject area of the question is a way to get that person an answer as quickly as possible.
It was the mods who posted the admonition about only posting about basses in the basses forum. I happen to agree that folks should take the time to place their posts in the desired place. It helps all of us to have our questions answered effectively, to be able to find answers via a search, and to maintain a useful archive that's not scattered. I try to help answer newbie questions quite often. When they are posted in the basses forum and really would be best posted elsewhere, I usually send a message to the mods. It happens quite often. I was actually serious that, given the number of such posts, it would be helpful if the title the mods posted was in bold. That would likely draw people's attention and have them post in the location that's best for everyone.
Personally, I really don't think it's too much to ask of a newbie to peruse the titles of the forums and to take a look at the stickies before posting. I think it's the considerate thing to do. I know I do it when I visit a new internet forum. Not doing it, and just throwing a post wherever, tends to convey, to me anyway, a lack of regard for how a forum has been set up and organized. That doesn't excuse bad behavior, inappropriate snarky comments, or willful attempts to make anyone feel unwelcome. Please consider, however, that it's a two-way street. There's responsibility on both sides.
Now, I hope that somehow we can get back on track.![]()
+1 Tensing up can be simply mind over matter, so to speak. Whenever I feel myself tensing, I consciously think "relax" and guess what, I relax. Eventually relaxation will become your style of playing and the tensing issue will fade away. Try it!