OK, you don't like the 'Ray tone (for reasons mentioned)
but you also dont like the tone from Scott's bass lessons intro.......I did a listen for the comparison of the disparity between the two: I agree with something with a single mid-mounted pickup (like a P-bass) but
brighter and punchier.......Fender Ps are all over the map in consistency so the G&L LB-100 with Roundwounds or Bright Flats (pressurewounds) would be a good place to start
Yeah, Ive made a lot of discoveries on my Stingray with EQ shaping. Ive turned
up the mid and turned
down the treble on a few recordings before and got a very nice Classic non-signature Rayish tone on a few recordings....Fast forward to 2:54 (fingers) and 4:00 (slap) below -- I dont think anyone would guess that as a Stingray (and it has rounds)