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The (badly) aging metaler

So many issues going on in this thread I'm gonna need therapy. I came from the punk rock era,and it's fun playing hard, loud and rude. You can't realistically sustain that teenage anger indefinitely. Now I'm a far better player, and can play heavier and nastier than my teenage self ever imagined. But being the chunky elder statesman you see at stage left, I'd probably be a little self conscious head banging in front of the youngsters.

Then again, I just watched this year's Isle of Man festival. Let's just say there was a shocking amount of Grecian Formula and unnaturally jet black hair framing heavily lined faces. These were mostly musicians backing up young singers. They could pass the 40 yard test, but fail closer scrutiny. Maybe I should drop a couple lbs, get a vat of that black goo and take some kids gig. :woot:

There was a photo of The Jesus Lizard playing live in 1993 and in 2009 taken from the same vantage point. The main difference in the photos was the amount of bald spots in the crowd. 90s rock is the new classic rock.
 
Yeah, nothing looks stupider than a balding guy with a halo of long hair down to his shoulders (or more).

Like, I can appreciate that losing your hair is a sore spot for many of us men, but at some point you have to gracefully accept aging.
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No you don't.
 
It's not just musicians, a lot of people just hold onto a style that reminds them of simpler times in their lives, before mortgages and jobs they hate etc. Even their musical taste will revert back to that one last summer when the didn't give a &*&^. :)
I was just reviewing some family pics from way back when and I shuddered at how I looked at times-wasn't the hair so much as what I was wearing...
 
In sure you are aging gracefully as bottle of rare scotch, right? I think the OP needs to post a photo of himself or herself to accompany this thread.
There's a big difference between aging and just trashing yourself and not giving a crap about your overall health and well-being -- BIG difference. Face it, it's show business, no matter how shallow anyone thinks that is. That being said, I've seen many guys in their 70's lay it down and own the stage.
 
Also: I was working at the college radio station on the day that the envelope with the Smells Like Teen Spirit single arrived in the mail. All I can tell you is that the whole "anti-fashion" ethos of the grunge era yielded -- for me -- nearly a decade where I am completely ashamed to see photos of myself. Pretending to not care how you look is actually worse than not caring how you look, which in itself is nothing to be proud of, in my opinion.
 
Jerry Only of the Misfits has a massively receding hairline, but still insists on doing it up in a deadlock. He makes me laugh every time I see it.

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So, let's see if I have this correct: After Squiggy left 'Laverne and Shirley', he took some time off, and reinvented himself as 'Jerry Only' of the Misfits?
 
A lot of bands say they don't have an image which I think usually means they wear "street clothes" on stage and for photo shoots. But even their street clothes adhere to a set of rigid rules. Nirvana comes to mind. Their image was they had "no image", but that no image operated within certain parameters which mainly consisted of clothes that looked like they could be found at the local Goodwill. Those silly sweaters became Cobain's image.

The Lamb of God photo that was posted earlier in the thread was cited as an example of a band not caring about their image, but obviously they do. They all took the effort to wear matching t-shirts, to have the same hairstyle, and to grow similar looking facial hair (except for the face of the band who has short hair and is clean shaven which makes it easier to identify him as the singer).

If someone takes a picture of your band. Your band has an image. Case closed.