I've found that's the case with most bands.Totally the case in my band. Can't tell you how many times I've been trying to switch between electric and upright and the drummer starts counting the tune off even when it's obvious I'm not ready. I almost quit playing upright with them because of it.
My position on stage, is to the drummer's left, standing just ahead of the line of the kick drum. Band leader (rhythm guitar) is in front of me, female singer is center stage, and lead guitar is stage right.
I switch between fretted 6, fretless 5 and EUB multiple times a set. I've gotten so used to being 'left behind' that I'm literally still fretting the resolution while I'm hanging up one bass, and grabbing the next one...
As for tuners, I have one built into my ME20B that I use, but I also own 2 Snarks. When they are on the headstock, I've got them turned backwards, so that the face of the tuner is hidden by the headstock. I also have them in colors that match my basses. All you see is the back of the clip, and their colors camouflage them.