I’ll never forget going to Seattle on a business trip about 15 years ago to do some benchmarking work with Boeing. The Boeing execs treated us to a dinner cruise with live band (don’t recall the band name unfortunately). I was sitting at the table with my back to the stage heavily engaged in some business discussions while the band was setting up. When the band kicked in, the first song sounded fantastic, possibly the best bass playing and sound I had ever heard live. I turned to see the band, only to find it was the darn keyboard player doing double duty. Not a bass to be found anywhere on stage.
I was crushed. Musically speaking, that was the first time in my life that I seriously thought - why am I even playing this instrument when a guy with a keyboard can do my job (just as good if not better) and his at the same time (and yes, the under achiever also sang backup). The experience was a complete game changer for me.
When I got back home, I looked at my basses and decided right then, that I wasn’t playing bass so I could be a great bass player - I was playing bass because I liked it, it was good stress relief and it helped keep my mind and dexterity sharp.