We cancelled tonight's gig a few hours ago. I initiated it after my S.O. begged me not to go tonight. The band discussed it this morning via FB messenger. My BL, who more than the rest of us is depends on gig money, announced on fb that she was cancelling the show. That's leadership, friends. I feel like I did the right thing, but I"m also miserable right now. What are we going to do? If the band is anything, we are in the social contact business. For five years, we've built up this whole community of people for whom we are (well...have been) regular weekend entertainment. Now I'm afraid it's all going to go to pieces, and it was me who made the first crack. Again, I think I did the right thing, but at the moment it is cold comfort. Cocktail hour is going to come early tonight.