Not at all. The new dynamics of music retail is of detriment to everybody. Customers will lose faith in otherwise good products. Mail order Stores don't want a million SKU's, so they will only stock the biggest sellers, and after sale service is gone with the wind. Everybody loses eventually.
I have to respectfully disagree here. Yours is a glass half empty rant.
You really have the best of both worlds. I understand that you feel the regret that the mom and pop or family relationship is vanishing. It is regrettable, especially for those of use that have had that relationship as part of our growing up. It feels warmly ingrained in part of our core being. But . . . . .
The reality is that unless you feel that you HAVE to personally try out a specific bass (or name music product here), which I have, the Super stores already have millions of SKU's and better guarantees, more choices, return policies and warranties than most all of the smaller shops. They have massive data systems to serve you anything you want. They don't watch your tail lights go over the hill and then forget, on the contrary, there are many, many posts of folks here that would rather not get the follow up phone calls post sale.
I use
Sweetwater and Musician's Friend quite often. Mostly
Sweetwater. I trust them without fear of being set up and a two year warranty?!?!? If it's damaged, you return it with no cost. If you decide you don't like it, send it back and pay the shipping. Shipping anywhere is a hassle but it's a no argument hassle with them. If you damage it and return it then yep, you can expect a charge. That seems fair enough to me.
My heart jumps when I'm traveling and see a small shop. Most often, if I have the time, I'll go in and check it out. Mind you, sometimes I get ignored and more than once I've been asked if' I'm buying or looking. Some of the good ole' days ideals stink in today's die hard small shops "apparently" trying to make it.
My local, Music on Mass, in Lawrence, KS., is a small shop customers dream come true. A luthier with major creds runs and owns the shop. Been here forever, and because it is a college town, it most likely will be here for quite some time. A bit more expensive mind you, but no one seems to care. The dude and his store/employees are respected. That is what I remember about the old days, the owners had class and knowledge and most of them outfitted the schools with wind, brass and percussion. They went to the schools and earned their business. ymmv but I doubt it.
I will be traveling to Wildwood Guitars in CO. soon because I want a Ric and I am adamant about hands on for this particular bass. Because I want it that way, I'll do the ten hour drive . . . one way. It's gonna be a blast, cuz I will make it that way.
In today's world, sometimes, you have to drive further to pass GO and and collect your 200.
Times change, embrace it and make sure those you deal with bring harm to no one, or find those that add value in a personal old kind of way. We are all teachers weather we think so or not. It is a result of interaction.
Peace. Now go out and play. (I would give anything to hear my mom say that again).