Matt, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I went through this a few years ago. It's not easy, but you can survive it. Be strong.
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Well, it's over...
- Thread starter Matt Till
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"we're not here for a long time, we're here for a good time"
hope your dad had a good time.
and i hope you and your family get through this okay.
take care.
hope your dad had a good time.
and i hope you and your family get through this okay.
take care.
I went through the exact same thing about two and a half years ago. My dad died of cancer that the doctors didn't catch when they should have, and by the time they finally got their acts together, it had spread throughout his body. Just to let you know, those last few weeks when he wasn't himself were the worst part, so it's only going to get better. you'll never forget him, but it WILL hurt less and less. If you need to talk, feel free to PM or IM me. I mean that.
Oh, and When people would say "sorry" to me, my response was "Why? did you kill him?" That always threw people. I never liked people telling me sorry either. It somehow felt cheap, generic, and empty.
Oh, and When people would say "sorry" to me, my response was "Why? did you kill him?" That always threw people. I never liked people telling me sorry either. It somehow felt cheap, generic, and empty.
I know I'm a little late but dude but that is horrible news and I extend you my heartfelt sympathy - thanks for checking out my stuff and being positive with your comments BTW, I had no idea what you are going through - I'm glad you're hanging out here there's alot of nice folks around these parts who obviously wish you and youir family much love and strength in the coming months and years.
Peace dude
M
Peace dude
M
Matt- be strong.
Its becoming well described that your ability to be cured of cancer (or at least duration of disease free survival is directly related to the experience of the doctor treating you. So your point about seeing a specialist is true. I will also add that the oncologist should have the best medical facility around him.
Its becoming well described that your ability to be cured of cancer (or at least duration of disease free survival is directly related to the experience of the doctor treating you. So your point about seeing a specialist is true. I will also add that the oncologist should have the best medical facility around him.
My condolences. I'm sure your dad has a big grin right now, reflecting on all he's accomplished.
Matt,
I didn't know whether or not to respond to this, as I've lost both of my parents... Cancer hit my dad, but thats not what did him in... My mom died due to her own addictions, ie Cigarrettes & Alcohol. Oddly, Alcohol played a huge part in my dads demise, as well.
Losing a parent, to a debilitating slow killer like cancer REALLY REALLY sucks, because you have to watch it happen daily.
Anyway, reading your post really kicked me in the balls... Nothing can take your pain away, except time... AND the knowledge that he's no longer suffering. THAT is a good thing.
I didn't know whether or not to respond to this, as I've lost both of my parents... Cancer hit my dad, but thats not what did him in... My mom died due to her own addictions, ie Cigarrettes & Alcohol. Oddly, Alcohol played a huge part in my dads demise, as well.
Losing a parent, to a debilitating slow killer like cancer REALLY REALLY sucks, because you have to watch it happen daily.
Anyway, reading your post really kicked me in the balls... Nothing can take your pain away, except time... AND the knowledge that he's no longer suffering. THAT is a good thing.
I lost my dad on Nov. 13 of '02 to cancer, so I know what you are going through.
I know I am a little late here (don't come down to OT very much), but my condolences go out to you and your family just the same.
I know I am a little late here (don't come down to OT very much), but my condolences go out to you and your family just the same.
The funeral was today... ugh, I hate crying in public, a lot.
Mm, I'm kinda glad it's over. I think the whole "hey look at this dead body" thing that goes on at funerals is weird. But it was well done, the pastor guy is awesome, so that helps.
Mm, I'm kinda glad it's over. I think the whole "hey look at this dead body" thing that goes on at funerals is weird. But it was well done, the pastor guy is awesome, so that helps.
Matt Till said:
I know what you mean on all counts.
The pastor at mt granddad's funeral opened up the ceremony by announcing very loudly "Bob Stewart is dead!" I thought we'd already established that point but I guess he didn't want any confusion.
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