MCBTunes said:
Besides obviously being able to play, what other aspects would make me a good prospect for your band... or perhaps to be signed to a record company to play for those singers like.... Hilary Duff, mandy moore or whatever....
I'm 18 now well almost and I'm sitting around the intermediate area, starting lessons up to work on the theory side... I want to be a musician.
So what does it take?
"Making it." There's different types of 'making it' if you think about it. You seem to have a good idea of what the goal is, as far as getting in a band or backing others. But narrow it down a little more.
Making a living at music? That's what you seem to be talking about, right? Making a living in any of the arts can be pretty tough, even if you're talented or have the 'image' so to speak. That's why, like the others have said, you have to love it - not just the bass or bass playing - but music. You have to love doing it and being involved with it. But you also have to be able to 'put up' with it because sometimes it can get pretty trying. Not money-wise or technique-wise but there'll be times when you're sitting there thinking "Why the hell am I freegin doing this?!"
And then you've got to be able to honestly laugh it off and say, "Because I actually like it!"
At 18, and wanting to make a living at it, you might, if you can, enroll in some college level music courses. Get a good grounding in what's been done in the past, and see if you can really get into sight-reading and perhaps recording and studio techniques. You'll probably make more money in studios than on stage, since studio work, if again you can find it, is a little more consistent - but that's where reading standard notation on the fly comes in.
And don't, if possible, limit yourself only to the bass. It can remain your main instrument, but allow yourself to learn other instruments - even if it's only to know how to write/arrange for them.
But getting back to the theme of the thread: all other things being equal and you having gone through the basics and learned all you can, to 'make it' still requires that deep, unshakable love for music, and making music, a respect for it above all things and patience with it and with yourself.
Best of luck!
