I don't want to sound like your Mom, but she does have a point. I went to college to do a nursing degree, and because of that I was able to work very flexible shifts to support myself, move to America, join a band, buy some cool equipment and a new car so that I had all the gear and finances to support whatever choices I made. I remember being a poor musician and it sucked. I couldn't afford to buy decent equipment and I couldn't afford to travel or go and see shows. If there was one piece of advice I could give a young person it would be to not ignore the rest of your life, which will keep on happening regardless of music. I lived and breathed nothing but music when I was 18, but to the detriment of anything else, and so I went to college later than most kids. I still have friends who used to be really cool and able musicians, who are now older and without college degrees and are finding it very hard just to make a living. When you're 18 it's cool to be a poor starving artist. When you're 40 it just plain sucks. Plan your life and your finances, because money amy not equal happiness but it sure as hell allows you to make choices that will.
I like the position I'm in right now. I'm in a great band that tours all over the country and abroad, we play great shows, I have good equipment and can afford even better, I drive a new car and I work 3 days a week and earn $60,000. I fit my music around my job and life is good. If I didn't have the job I couldn't really afford to do the band. If I need a new flight case I just buy it. If I need to hire a car in California to get to a show, I can just do it. When I was 18 I couldn't do any of that and I remember trying to get to a gig with my guitar and an amp on the bus in the rain! So...the moral of the story is...work at your music and work at your life. Good luck!
I like the position I'm in right now. I'm in a great band that tours all over the country and abroad, we play great shows, I have good equipment and can afford even better, I drive a new car and I work 3 days a week and earn $60,000. I fit my music around my job and life is good. If I didn't have the job I couldn't really afford to do the band. If I need a new flight case I just buy it. If I need to hire a car in California to get to a show, I can just do it. When I was 18 I couldn't do any of that and I remember trying to get to a gig with my guitar and an amp on the bus in the rain! So...the moral of the story is...work at your music and work at your life. Good luck!
