What to do?

[Bass>Guitar]

So what do I do if I dont like my g/f's haircut? We've been going out for about a year and she's always had this awesome long curly hair that I really liked. She went away for a week to her sister's and come's back with really short. Personally I think it looks horrible and I really cant stand to look at it. Do I tell her? Do I hope it grows back somewhat fast? Do I learn to live with it? Any advice appreciated.

 

[fryBASS]

Sucks bro.

 

[timmbass]

Don't tell her.

Don't tell someone something they can't change.

 

[darkfish01]

Just admit to yourself that there's no depth to your shallowness and move on.

 

[soulgeezer]

Just admit to yourself that there's no depth to your shallowness and move on.

Actually, I think his shallowness is absolutely profound...

 

[Fontaine]

o dear god dont tell her...its suicide...just get someone else to say it...if only you knew kramer...

 

[labgnat]

go get ur head shaved and if she says she doenst' like it say it's not any worse than yours. and then go buy her extensions

 

[Aaron Saunders]

Wait for it to grow back some, and after it has, gush profusely about how much you appreciate her long, curly hair.

 

[Fontaine]

go get ur head shaved and if she says she doenst' like it say it's not any worse than yours. and then go buy her extensions

actually thats not all that bad of an idea...

 

[Aaron Saunders]

As long as you don't mind being bald

 

[mlowe]

Totally understand and sympathize. Shoot the sister. The darn sister, best friend always think they know what's best.

Chicks always seem to think change=better when usually they are already hot.

I could repeat a Maki statement that's perfect but I don't want to get booted.

 

[ThatGermanDude]

what's your question here?
do you consider breaking up with your gf of one year over a haircut? I hope not.

hair grows back. just mention sometime that you like longer hair better, or that's what i'd probably do.

 

[labgnat]

you know what, you really should just be thankful she got it cut short enough that you even notice. cause at least you can lie and say you like it. but if she cuts 2 inches and you never notice it could be just as bad as telling her you dont' like her hair cut, depending on her level of moodiness

 

[Herrlster]

Do what Doug did when he didn't like Carrie's hair in a bun. Pay Holly to do it for you...


Man... I watch way too much King Of Queens...

 

[soulgeezer]

I could repeat a Maki statement that's perfect but I don't want to get booted.

Somthing about lips?

 

[Depth_Charge]

So what do I do if I dont like my g/f's haircut? We've been going out for about a year and she's always had this awesome long curly hair that I really liked. She went away for a week to her sister's and come's back with really short. Personally I think it looks horrible and I really cant stand to look at it. Do I tell her? Do I hope it grows back somewhat fast? Do I learn to live with it? Any advice appreciated.

If you love and respect her and her choices and want to continue the relationship, then learn to live with it. There should be no harm in being honest though, and telling her how you feel. Just don't be rude about it, and emphasise that:

"I respect your right and courage to change your hair so dramatically, but to be honest short hair on women really doesn't appeal to me much. I really do hope you plan on growing it out again as I am having some difficulty coming to terms with this change".

Be respectful, own your feelings, and let her own hers. One day, you might want a tattoo or piercing she doesn't agree with, and if you've set a precedent of expecting change from what you don't like, prepare to wear the same back at ya!

Oh, and no pics, no short haired g/f!!

 

[bassfacekevin]

you are in the touchy area in a relationship called "having opinions." Should you enjoy said relationship and would like to continue on as before, it would be best if you adopted the generally accepted "smile and nod" philosophy.

~K

 

[Poop-Loops]

Put a bag over her head.

 

[Depth_Charge]

you are in the touchy area in a relationship called "having opinions." Should you enjoy said relationship and would like to continue on as before, it would be best if you adopted the generally accepted "smile and nod" philosophy.

~K

That is so wrong yet in todays society, so right

 

[Bluesdog]

So .................. she got her hair cut short, ......... yawn.




wake me up when she got a Brazillian