I am flummoxed. A few days ago I put in an offer on an inexpensive bass on Reverb. I intended to use the bass as a sort of backup/practice bass that I could keep in my office. The listing quoted $30 as a shipping price. The offer was accepted and a few days later I got a message from the seller saying he had been to FedEx and they wanted $140 so he was looking for other options. At that point I wrote back to say I had been down that road, one time feeling like I had practically given a bass away after shipping it. I also clearly said that if shipping was going to be more expensive, I didn't mind if he cancelled the order and refunded my money. No hurt feelings. Last night I got a message that he had shipped the bass at another FedEx and the total (after buying shipping supplies) was $65. He asked me to PayPal him the $30 to cover the difference after the bass arrives. Frankly, I'm not sure what I want to do. Part of me wants to tell him to stuff it, and that he should have gotten a real quote before listing it. Part of me feels for the guy because I've been there. What would you do?