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What's on your Christmas list?

I'm trying to figure out what to put on my Christmas list. I need help.
My wife demands that I give her a list. I don't have anything that I really need or want, so every year I give her a list of things that I neither need nor want, but she's still going to spend money on nonetheless.

Obviously I have some bass-related stuff (mostly pedals), but here's my non-bass related list:

Nextmug or Ember Mug
Rolling Grill Baskets
Twelve South Airfly 3.5mm to Bluetooth transmitter
2TB Micro SD Card (for the Switch)
Concert tickets to Rush and Megadeth/Anthrax/Iron Maiden
books about WW2
Similar situation here. It's a good situation to be in :) I have realized that there are things I need, but never can think of them at gifting time. Usually unexciting/utility items. A few considerations:
• There are lots of cheap but good pedals on Amazon. If you want to try something weird, you can do so for cheap. And big names are on sale now too.
• Mics. Not sure how into recording you are, but another SM57 is always handy
• Cables, picks, straps, strings, fretwraps, string swings, instrument stand
• Blinky strings of lights or weird interesting lamps for the studio. And a mirror ball. You don't think you need it, but trust me bro.
• Really tight sleeveless mesh half-shirt
 
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I'm trying to figure out what to put on my Christmas list. I need help.
My wife demands that I give her a list. I don't have anything that I really need or want, so every year I give her a list of things that I neither need nor want, but she's still going to spend money on nonetheless.

Obviously I have some bass-related stuff (mostly pedals), but here's my non-bass related list:

Nextmug or Ember Mug
Rolling Grill Baskets
Twelve South Airfly 3.5mm to Bluetooth transmitter
2TB Micro SD Card (for the Switch)
Concert tickets to Rush and Megadeth/Anthrax/Iron Maiden
books about WW2

Hmmmm.... what about listing some things you think she'd like?

I'm not suggesting you ask for diamonds or pearls, but maybe something you can both use, that you know she'd enjoy. An espresso machine? A couples massage?
 
"Subtract...don't add". That being said, I bought myself a new inexpensive preamp pedal BUT I'm giving stuff away left & right via community websites.

*Fish fryer
*Wet / dry vacuum
*70 y.o. Craftsman table saw
*Susan's bicycle...that was a great idea 25 years ago!

Potter's House, a local charity, accepts bike donations, fixes them up, and gives them to the destitute for basic transportation. To be eligible, the recipient has to show proof of employment (...of some type).

Riis
 
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Just a set of strings, took me a while to figure out which, as I have a Medium Scale bass. Ended up asking for D'Addario EXL220 Nickel Wound Super-Light, 40-95. Nice stocking stuffer. All I really need, and everything I "want" is a lot more money.
 
I'm trying to figure out what to put on my Christmas list. I need help.
My wife demands that I give her a list. I don't have anything that I really need or want, so every year I give her a list of things that I neither need nor want, but she's still going to spend money on nonetheless.

Obviously I have some bass-related stuff (mostly pedals), but here's my non-bass related list:

Nextmug or Ember Mug
Rolling Grill Baskets
Twelve South Airfly 3.5mm to Bluetooth transmitter
2TB Micro SD Card (for the Switch)
Concert tickets to Rush and Megadeth/Anthrax/Iron Maiden
books about WW2
The real gift is your loving wife. God bless your family
 
I'm trying to figure out what to put on my Christmas list. I need help.
My wife demands that I give her a list. I don't have anything that I really need or want, so every year I give her a list of things that I neither need nor want, but she's still going to spend money on nonetheless.

Obviously I have some bass-related stuff (mostly pedals), but here's my non-bass related list:

Nextmug or Ember Mug
Rolling Grill Baskets
Twelve South Airfly 3.5mm to Bluetooth transmitter
2TB Micro SD Card (for the Switch)
Concert tickets to Rush and Megadeth/Anthrax/Iron Maiden
books about WW2
I appreciate your quandary. I was JUST talking to my mom last night about Christmas. I literally said: Aside from paying the bills, I have all I need. I have never had more clothes than I do now. I have so many books and reading materials I may never get through them all in 20 years. I don't really lack for anything (aside from the money for those damn tax and administrative bills).

Unsaid here is there are SURELY things you WANT (I mean this is TalkBass GAS heaven after all), but you (and I) are not willing to put relatively expensive things on a Christmas list. And that bar for me of "too expensive" for a Christmas list for other people to view is around $150 for any one item, so that eliminates a new Shure Beta 58 vocal mic, and a Radial-brand box or two, and so many guitar pedals, and other things...

And a lot of the stuff I "need" or want that's $150 or below has already been bought on the premise of actual need, or a "want" from time to time that isn't a budget breaker, and that stuff tends to be far below the $150 threshold.

Luckily, I love books and guitar pickups. With so many guitar pickups around or fairly less than the $150 threshold, there's still options for me that are truly interesting, wanted and perhaps even truly useful.
 
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My gf and I are both minimalists and don’t like unnecessary “stuff”. So for Xmas we usually do a weekend getaway somewhere. If we do buy anything it’s usually things like tea or flowers. A happy and healthy family is the only thing on my wish list. I can buy my own socks.
 
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I'm trying to figure out what to put on my Christmas list. I need help.
My wife demands that I give her a list. I don't have anything that I really need or want, so every year I give her a list of things that I neither need nor want, but she's still going to spend money on nonetheless.

Obviously I have some bass-related stuff (mostly pedals), but here's my non-bass related list:

Nextmug or Ember Mug
Rolling Grill Baskets
Twelve South Airfly 3.5mm to Bluetooth transmitter
2TB Micro SD Card (for the Switch)
Concert tickets to Rush and Megadeth/Anthrax/Iron Maiden
books about WW2
When our kids ask us what we want for a birthday, Christmas, etc., we always have the same reply:

"Time with you."

It could be going for a walk, bike ride, or kayaking together, or a day at zoo together, or being invited over for a barbeque, anything really, along it's a shared experience we'll have the opportunity to laugh about together in the future.

We no longer buy into the notion that buying stuff is the answer; time is the most perishable and valuable to us; we have enough stuff, and no desire for more stuff just because a date pops up on the calendar.