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When do you become an adult?

I heard this on a podcast the other day and I think its probably fairly accurate in the majority of cases. There are always exceptions.

"When you are 18 you start to have thoughts, they are not good thoughts, but they are coherent and you think they are good and worth sharing with everyone. When you are 23 you start to have good coherent thoughts about the world that adults might take seriously and you know when to, and not to shared them. When you are 25 your thoughts are generally worthwhile and other adults will recognise you as an adult."

Discuss.
 
I feel that your (sic) an Adult when you can make your own decisions, take care of your responsibilities and account for your actions. Unfortunately, some people never grow up.

That's a good working definition, but I'd add one more important qualifier: when you consider the impacts of your actions on others as well as on yourself.

That's a standard that a lot of our population never achieves, but I think it's extremely important.
 
To paraphrase a Supreme Court judge, I know one when I see one.

Some people grow up faster than others. I still don't think of myself as an adult, and probably never will. My kids think I am, though. Once they're adults the jig'll be up, I'm sure.