Believe me, I've attended recitals that made me wonder why I even bother. I think the way to survive it, emotionally, is to treat it as an inspiration rather than as a threat.
When I was in high school, I played cello in the community orchestra. (There was no school orchestra). I shared a stand with a kid my age, who was much better than me -- more disciplined, dedicated, talented, better teacher, you name it. He was planning on studying music in college. I realized there was no point to me trying to be anything more than a dedicated amateur after that. On the other hand, I had interests such as math and physics, where I stood a much better chance.
I have no regrets.
Part of becoming a bassist was that you could be a dedicated amateur and still get to play. Bass, like all instruments, is probably more competitive today as there are fewer gigs.
In my day job, and I suspect on bass, it's true that raw ability is important. But there are other things as well, such as practical knowledge acquired over the span of decades, breadth of knowledge, being easy to deal with, being a good mentor, and just plain old sticking around. You could hire a virtuoso drummer, but everybody else wants to hire that drummer too.
When I was in high school, I played cello in the community orchestra. (There was no school orchestra). I shared a stand with a kid my age, who was much better than me -- more disciplined, dedicated, talented, better teacher, you name it. He was planning on studying music in college. I realized there was no point to me trying to be anything more than a dedicated amateur after that. On the other hand, I had interests such as math and physics, where I stood a much better chance.
I have no regrets.
Part of becoming a bassist was that you could be a dedicated amateur and still get to play. Bass, like all instruments, is probably more competitive today as there are fewer gigs.
In my day job, and I suspect on bass, it's true that raw ability is important. But there are other things as well, such as practical knowledge acquired over the span of decades, breadth of knowledge, being easy to deal with, being a good mentor, and just plain old sticking around. You could hire a virtuoso drummer, but everybody else wants to hire that drummer too.
