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Who do you play with?The pain of looking for a good drummer is part of why I have not put my own band together and likely never will. I know several good drummers. They are either super busy, retired from music, or difficult to work with. I'm no longer willing to deal with the stress of the latter, and the other two aren't available so that leaves me starting at zero and the mere thought of trying to find someone is really discouraging. Of course, it's all academic at this point with nobody playing.
Sometimes you gotta just play along.Boy, but that brings back a bad memory. There was a drummer at a particular church where I use to play. Truly a nice guy to be around and there was nothing this guy couldn't play. Problem was, he pretty much had to show you in every song. Here we were playing Christmas day in church playing Joy To The World which had a very upbeat tempo to it. Great groove to the song and he just destroyed it. Overplayed that song to death. Here I was trying to play along with him (again, in church) and I'm thinking "what the **** are you doing?"
Maybe more than many do in a year.Lots of comments about natural talent. I'm guessing she practices more hours a day than many here do in half a month.
I must disagree. A real pianist is *far more elusive*. But yes a steady drummer with an accessable pocket and restraint from too many fills and fluff (musical maturity) is a big asset.I'm finding that a good drummer is the hardest band member to find and keep.
Mike JV, I couldn't help but LOL big time at that one...if only you had a video of that. we could all use a laugh in this day and age.Boy, but that brings back a bad memory. There was a drummer at a particular church where I use to play. Truly a nice guy to be around and there was nothing this guy couldn't play. Problem was, he pretty much had to show you in every song. Here we were playing Christmas day in church playing Joy To The World which had a very upbeat tempo to it. Great groove to the song and he just destroyed it. Overplayed that song to death. Here I was trying to play along with him (again, in church) and I'm thinking "what the **** are you doing?"
The pain of looking for a good drummer is part of why I have not put my own band together and likely never will. I know several good drummers. They are either super busy, retired from music, or difficult to work with. I'm no longer willing to deal with the stress of the latter, and the other two aren't available so that leaves me starting at zero and the mere thought of trying to find someone is really discouraging. Of course, it's all academic at this point with nobody playing.
I tried soooo hard. We had been in two bands together prior to him deciding he was sick of the whole thing. My band's regular drummer accidentally double-booked for a night we were scheduled to play a tribute show so I asked my friend if he would sub.The last successful mainstream dance party cover band I put together, I literally built it up around a drummer friend who I coaxed out of retirement. Human clock, impeccable timing and taste, no hand-holding, that rare rock solid cornerstone we all hope for. I invited him over to play my electric drums through a JamHub, and after a few duo sessions we were having so much fun he said he was in, go ahead and start auditioning. Without that green light, I wouldn't have done it. Ended up being an 8-piece with keys and a couple of horns, steady stream of private ($$$) and A-room ($) clients. That one lasted close to four years before the lead singer became a total PITA and I lost motivation for the BL/MD role, and I haven't met the drummer before or since then that I would go through that much effort to ensure a rewarding experience. Like you said, most of those guys and gals are already busy or otherwise compromised.
Probably no one you've heard of, but I wouldn't put a name out here.Who do you play with?




