Being honest in my life, a budding musician to a full time pro and now only playing maybe 10 gigs and 5 or 10 recording sessions a year in my retirement, I’m not a holy roller, but I live in mortal fear of being “that guy” that doesn’t have his crap together and letting his band mates down.
That said, after 50 some years, I don’t need to “refine” 12 hours a day, but I do practice about 2 hours a week on the average and ramp it up to about 20 hours over two to three weeks prepping for a performance.
But to you point about company softball, if I went 0 for 3, you’d bet I’d be in a batting cage until I got it worked out before the next game. LOL!!!
Enjoyed your post.