Just deal with reputable people and clearly spell out the terms of the transaction. When I sell an item on TB I typically ship within 24 hrs./next business day. If I can't do that then i communicate with the buyer and apprise him of the situation and let him know when to expect shipment.
thats about right.
really, fraud is likely either way, and sending payment first is more trackable, as stated before.
"if i pay first, how do i know ill get the item?"
"if i ship first, how do i know he'll pay?"
in reality, you pay first.
OP, do you go to concerts and ask to pay as you leave rather than go in?
