I think we share a lot of positive vibe mutual enthusiasm here at TBOT.
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If person A is given two choices...
Be "gaysumowrestler3000" or your real name of "Bob McBitchin",
Gaysumowrestler3000 is going to post with brazen anonymity.
"Bob McBitchin" using his real name, is far less likely to be so brazen.
Years ago Ken Smith was one of the more notorious "banned for life" TBers.
When he started his own site, one of his rules was "you must use your real full name which will be verified".
Kens corner is therefore one of the most well behaved (and boring) bulletin boards on the internet.

Ken has poor interpersonal skills.
His basses are second to none.
His bulletin board is better than valium.
Funny you ask.This would be an awesome ad for his basses! Ever considered a marketing career, nukes?
Seeing a physical manifestation of the words that exist inside our head can be intoxicating and even empowering. Those that can foresee, and care about what happens when those words are released beyond the grey matter and the thickness of their skin will edit them before they release them to the world wide audience. More often than not that kind of foresight takes experience. Wisdom. So it is no surprise that the preponderance of "trolling" and vitriol are from young people. Often times they don't seem to realize the import of what they type, they just go for the most outlandish thing possible and do so with no regard for effect beyond attention. Attention, good or bad is seen as equal. ( actually bad is a stronger trigger than good... but that is another psych article for another time)
With the exception of the bond on facebook part, this sounds exactly what I've read in every history and sociology book. I find young people doing a lot of group hating on FB myself.It seems that in today's social climate, it has not only become acceptable, but encouraged, to not just hate someone's opinion, but to hate the person themselves for having said opinion. Then go bond with your friends on facebook over how much "those people" are total scum and need to be killed or deported or whatever.
And then be banished forever. This is why Facebook is always overwhelmingly positive and if you post anything that can be even mildly considered negative, you are basically that bad person . Then, because everybody these days has such an abundance of friends on Facebook you are easily eliminated as a commodity and not a person anymore.I've ran into quite a few older guys on the internet who would do the same thing - only I don't think it was for attention so much as to try and shout people down into accepting their negative views. The more you resist the negativity, the meaner the words become until they're straight up personal attacks.
It seems that in today's social climate, it has not only become acceptable, but encouraged, to not just hate someone's opinion, but to hate the person themselves for having said opinion. Then go bond with your friends on facebook over how much "those people" are total scum and need to be killed or deported or whatever.
The rest of the world is close behind.social media is the decline of western civilization.
With the exception of the bond on facebook part, this sounds exactly what I've read in every history and sociology book. I find young people doing a lot of group hating on FB myself.
And then be banished forever. This is why Facebook is always overwhelmingly positive and if you post anything that can be even mildly considered negative, you are basically that bad person . Then, because everybody these days has such an abundance of friends on Facebook you are easily eliminated as a commodity and not a person anymore.
I don't have a facebook page, so I'm not as privvy as I could be. I've over-the-shoulder read stuff on other peoples' pages and it usually looked like a group of trolls all baiting each other with maybe one person pleading for reason to prevail.
I can't walk through an office supply store without having improper thoughts. Damn you internet!:|If nothing else, it leads to some strange fetishes you'd never have thought you'd have.