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You know your bandmates are old when-

How does that work, anyway? I was in a band for a moment with a dude that was 15 years younger than me and it was one of the most uncomfortable things, ever for me. I couldn't stop thinking he was closer in age to my daughter than he was to me. It was weird.

In my band the guitarist and I are 50, keyboard player is 60 - and the singer and drummer (her husband) are late 20's
 
How does that work, anyway? I was in a band for a moment with a dude that was 15 years younger than me and it was one of the most uncomfortable things, ever for me. I couldn't stop thinking he was closer in age to my daughter than he was to me. It was weird.

Kind of convoluted connections, but we were sick of dealing with the same old song and dance from musicians on our local scenes. We're spread across 4 states and never laid eyes on one another till we got together the first time, but we already had a solid idea of what we wanted to do and the commitment we expected from each other and it just works.

Specifically, we're 64 (drummer), 52 (me), 41 (guitar & lead vocals), 39 (keys, percussion) and our youngest member is 28 (guitar) who joined us last November when another of the founding members (61) gave notice last fall.

If you're all on the same page musically, and the resulting gigs & money are good enough to keep everybody happy, age really is just a number...and the extraneous details don't amount to a hill of beans.
 
I remember hating how every cover band around was always playing classic rock, thinking "if I hear Sweet Home Alabama one more damn time...." And now I'm in a band playing a lot of 90s grunge, and doing pretty well locally, then one day flip to the local classic rock station and hear Stone Temple Pilots and Alice in Chains back to back... and I come to a horrible realization.

I'm in a ****ing classic rock cover band.

Haha. That's true. To avoid classic music in any genre, you can't just run away from the classics once. You gotta keep moving for the rest of your career or they'll catch up with you.

How does that work, anyway? I was in a band for a moment with a dude that was 15 years younger than me and it was one of the most uncomfortable things, ever for me. I couldn't stop thinking he was closer in age to my daughter than he was to me. It was weird.

Eh, I'm in a band with a guy who's about 14 years younger than me and I always make fun of him for having the musical tastes of an old man because he likes rock and samba and guitar solos and stuff like that.
 
"You know your bandmates are old when"...

I was in a band comprised partly of old-school punk rockers, original members of DK's, Flipper, etc., and in the down time before/between sets it was common to hear them chatting about health insurance, skin cancer, liver and kidney diseases, and Medicare.
 
You know your bandmates are old when-"
You all remember seeing the Beatle play live on Ed Sulliven.
you all remember when cassettes first came out
you're set list included "refugee, from the heartbreakers- cause it was on the new Tom Petty albuim
special note - albuims were sold in "all the stores"
 
I was at the local Perkins after a gig a few months ago and mentioned I needed to take a prescription medication when I got home.

An old buddy said "Yep, we used to smoke it....now we just rub it on.....":D

I quit worrying about 'making it' when my hair began to fall out....when I was 20.....:rollno: