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Your most annoying quality as a bandmate

Haven't been in a band in a while, but I know my worst quality.

I put up with a lot of crap in my younger days. Let myself be pushed around and taken advantage of just to keep peace in the band. Towards the end of my band days, I didn't take any crap from anybody, probably to the point of being over-sensitive.

I have run the gamut from wishy-washy to hard a$$.
 
I'm another one of those guys that refuses to be "just the bass player"...(well, I'm not 'cos I'm the only backing vox as well). I like to have my say in rehearsals about how we should play something (often more than my say) and it sometimes rubs up against the lead guitarist.

I don't know why his opinion should count more than mine, after all he only founded the band 8 years ago and built it up into a sucessful rock covers band that I walked into just less than a year ago...;)
 
I'm sure I've ticked off quite a fair number of band mates

"your tone should be the cash register openeing... not the Wilheim scream as their ears are bleeding... set your tone and levels from mid - not from the intersection of of cranium and colon avenue"

It is funny about 1/2 time they are confused where to find cranium and colon.
 
Let's see...

I'm an okay bassist, but my personality is crap.

I'm a total jerk. I'm not patient at all. People obviously not having practiced bugs the crap out of me. Conversely, I'm terrible at networking because I'm really shy when it comes to meeting people. I get bored too easily (that's related to having no patience) and so can't stand rehearsing something endlessly so one band member can get it. I rarely play something the same way twice, and countless other habits that probably annoy the hell out of my bandmates.