LOL... BEST ANSWER YET!Played for free to get my future wife out to a show, and drunk, so I could nail her. Hey it worked, got laid that night and been happily together ever since (married almost 6 years).
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LOL... BEST ANSWER YET!Played for free to get my future wife out to a show, and drunk, so I could nail her. Hey it worked, got laid that night and been happily together ever since (married almost 6 years).
Wait, y'all get paid to play? Dannnnggggggggg
"Well, Ron decided not to charge for the gig, it's for a bunch of seniors and we're all still getting paid $10 each..."It's a fashion show, and there will be models there, and I can meet some of the models, and models have big egos, so I'll finally be able to have a conversation with someone I can relate to!
yea that's one thing I hate to hear a small new venue say that has no idea how the music world works. well we cant pay you tonight, but think of all the exposure your band can get. wow gee thanks,. and oh yeah you have to pay your bar tab. and you need to pay the sound guy.. yes ive played a place where it was promised to have a huge crowd.. we get there, play for no one..and they say we have to pay the sound guy 100 buck. the shag?? we ditched out the back while loading.. shag them..we are the entertainment.. keep in mind this place reached out to us to play for them and was told we could play for the door.. it was us and one other band... new city new venue for us.. and it was back in 2006 ish..It's a fashion show, and there will be models there, and I can meet some of the models, and models have big egos, so I'll finally be able to have a conversation with someone I can relate to!
Yes--you get exposed to other people who expect you to play for free.Playing for "Exposure." It simply doesn't work that way any more (if it ever did). This is an urban legend that should die a dusty death.
It's a fashion show, and there will be models there, and I can meet some of the models, and models have big egos, so I'll finally be able to have a conversation with someone I can relate to!
Do it once in a while for a cause like Make A Wish or a friends wedding where I play for free but pay the band. Agree though, would never play a club or similar venue for free or less than what my normal rate is, never. Playing club or similar venues for free sets a bad precedent. Play for the door when I know I will make at least what I want or more. Some venue owners like shared risk. A lesser guarantee plus the door. That always works in our favor.It's a fashion show, and there will be models there, and I can meet some of the models, and models have big egos, so I'll finally be able to have a conversation with someone I can relate to!
I have a career that's about 48 hours a week (which I love), and I now play because I love to play and sing, after taking 14 years off to raise kids and do family things. Now that the kids are gone, I have the time and money to be able to have decent gear, and play with musicians I respect and appreciate. Prior to that I was a full time touring musician. That being said I equate money with respect. We played 39 weekends last year, or 62 dates, 4 hours a night typically. I love to play but my time and talent is worth something and so is that of my band-mates. Many of whom have played with national acts. It's a matter of perspective, playing in church is different or for house parties and friends, which I also occasionally do, for free. There is enough demand for us around town that we typically don't have to concern ourselves with haggling over money. Something we all appreciate. Being able to play is a gift, something I don't take for granted.I used to play in bars, and over a few decades of occasional gigs, I'm not sure I ever made enough money to fund my gear habit. Now I play in churches prety much every weekend, and although I still have a gear habit (it's actually gotten worse), I don't have to try to rationalize that I'll pay the gear purchases back with gig money - it's a non-issue.
Not having to even think about money with regards to gigs, is, I find, liberating - nobody ever argues with me about how to split the take. I don't have to think twice if I'm offered a gig I don't want to do - I simply say "no thanks". Some athletes have a "love of the game" clause in their contracts, so they can play whenever they want, even if it's just a pickup game on a playground or something. I'm kinda like that, except, I only take the gigs I love to do - it's never about money.
a lot of times I wish, in addition to there being a dislike button, that there were like+dislike buttons for each paragraph. I really liked this one sentence alone, the rest that followed was pretty solid too, though.I have time at work today to disagree with people, so I will.
But unfortunately unless your name is John Taylor, they will refuse to date you or even be seen with you as the bassist.It's a fashion show, and there will be models there, and I can meet some of the models, and models have big egos, so I'll finally be able to have a conversation with someone I can relate to!